Black People : STEPS TO BRING BACK THE BLACK

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  1. PatriceCQueen

    PatriceCQueen Well-Known Member MEMBER

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    STEPS TO BRING BACK THE BLACK
    MALE AS THE HEAD OF HIS FAMILY
    AND INCREASING, STRENGTHING
    MAKING BLACK FAMILIES ECONOMICALLY
    POWERFUL

    1. Blacks should build an economy whereby
    welfare or any type of outside economic or
    social controle of the Black family is eliminated.
    Developing workable strategies to spurt
    economic growth and activity should be well
    planned and worked upon.

    2. Males should be the heads and leaders of their
    households whether they are working or not,
    the concept of "head of household" has nothing to do with who brings money into the
    household but with who the father of the house hold is. No head of household status would be given to a fifteen year old above his father just because the fifteen year old is the only one of the household with a job.

    3. During marriage, both men and women should
    take "vows of responsibility to children" so that destructive games played by some women
    who refuse to allow the fathers of their children to participate in the rearing of their own, can be considered a criminal act and the culprits made to follow the rules.

    4. Black men must be in controle of their families at all times. Sons must be properly raised by their fathers and taught the attributes of being strong and upstanding men.

    5. Black men must consider forming contracts
    with the women they plan to marry so that
    these women will be expected to work with
    men in helping improve the family.

    6. The Black man must have the utmost respect and love for his woman, yet must be prepared to discuss bad bahavior and destructive
    habits when they come from himself, his wife or children. The Black man should never do
    or say anything that will contribute to the
    destruction of his marriage and breakup of his family.

    7. Upon the break-up of a marriage and family, fathers must have and apply the right to con-
    tinue raising and contributing to their sons
    and daughters social, cultural and economic
    development. Men should take the action
    necessary, whether through the courts or
    established laws to make sure their rights are respected.

    8. Black men who are not in controle of ther
    families and children, should do all in their
    power to expose and take to court those who are responsible for causing the destruction of the Black family.

    9. Black men should avoid women who are are
    not ladylike, who use profanity, who ran to
    their mothers, sisters and girlfriends for
    advice on their personal lives and who are
    always looking for confrontation with their
    men.

    10. The Black man should decide how large or small his family should be. This decision
    must be a mutual one, however a man must
    make sure his future wife agrees with his
    objectives and that hers are compatible with his.

    11. Black men should never allow doctors or any
    one else to tie up the tubes of their women or perform abortions on them. Nor birth control
    devices should be allowed to be inserted in
    part of their wives or womens' bodies unless
    they are absolutely necessary for health
    and not to meet the Black population control agenda of others.

    12. Black men should never marry domineering women of any kind, if these men do not want to be treated like children for the rest of their lives and live a miserable life.

    13. Black men must begin to create Black male
    secret societies (such as the Nubian World
    Order of Ausar), that will help contribute to
    social, economic, cultural and family
    development of the Black male, his family
    and the society where he lives.

    14. Charity begins at home and so does having
    love, honor and respect for one's own tribe, nation and family. Doing all that is
    necessary to honor one's ancestors who
    toiled during enslavement to build the
    Americas or who fought to keep their
    ancestral lands
    (such Black American Nations of
    pre-columbian times such as the Garifuna,
    Afro-Darienite, Black Californian, Wa****aw,
    and others) must be carried out especially
    preserving their culture, history and
    characteristics.

    15. Both Black men and women should return
    having large, distinctly Black families by
    having as many children as can be supported. Due to the attacks and destruc-
    tion of today's Black families, a new attitude
    and the return to having an average of about ten children per Black couple is very necessary in order to preserve Black
    families, culture, history, human rights and
    characteristics and to prevent being returned to a small, insignificant, vulnerable and
    oppressed minority, who would be trampled
    upon by all other groups, due to Blacks lack of a large population and the economic,
    cultural, political and social power that
    having large populations bring about.

    bp


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  2. spicybrown

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    PatriceCQueen......

    Absolutely!! I agree, this is soooo true.
     
  3. fanyamambo

    fanyamambo Well-Known Member MEMBER

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    Sounds like the thoughts of a male supremacist
     
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    I'm glad someone else besides me thought so....,but despite that "hint" of chauvinism, I do like the underlying premise of what he stands for.....the strengthening and reunification of the Black family....
     
  5. militant

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    Look at this African woman. And please, I dont mean it in a demeaning way. When did the african woman begin to talk about "male supremacy"? Who taught you that? Is it not the same European woman who worships and adores her own man? Is it not the same European woman who sleeps with the greatest of your own African men by night, but professes love to the least of her European men by Day light?

    Before the European, the African woman did not need to compete with the "male supremacist". African history is about women who contributed the best to society. They held the family together under the guide of the male household. And they fought to hold the community together when the occasion arose. Read the Yoruba stories of Moremi, and the All women army of Dahomey Kingdom. And never ever did they form the notion of "male supremacy"!
     
  6. Riada

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    This sounds extremely sexist to me also. I shuddered when I first read it with all of that man being in control of this and that and even deciding whether the woman should get her tubes tied or whether she should have an abortion!!

    Sounds like the woman in this person's mind is just a baby-making machine. It doesn't sound like she doesn't need to have a heart or a mind because what he says is going to prevail anyway.

    There are plenty women out there who don't know their worth, so there probably won't be a shortage of women who'll sign onto this. It is truly still a man's world to even have the nerve to write something like this.
     
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    Some elements might be extreme. Tying of tubes and abortion must be a joint decision of the couple if they are married.

    However the Male must remain the head of the family!!
     
  8. Sun Ship

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    You’re right on point brother…

    Even though the list presented may be slightly flawed or maybe a little rough around the edges, it is still for the most part, an excellent and powerful statement, if not a directive.

    I find it interesting that some our people continue to always look for the tear in the fabric so they can rip the whole spread.

    The suggestion of a husband not allowing a Black woman to get her tubes tied is not even really possible, because in this society no husband has that type of absolute legal power anyway! Black women ARE getting their tubes tied and ARE getting as much birth control drugs as they want!

    After seeing how this thread is being already attacked, like I’ve been told and I see more everyday, the white man is very crafty, if anything. It’s not that he’s necessarily making us to do or forcing us to say anything directly, but it’s the position he has put us in…basically, “we’re damned if do and we’re sho’nuff damned if we don’t.”

    We’re in the crosshairs of extinction, an imploding civilization.


    While our populations are being genocidally devastated by the seemingly mysterious AIDS epidemic, poor health care, fratricidal mania, perpetual coup de tats, and a drop in educated Black women having children, the productive white female population from 20-60 years old, from housewives to executives, are spending probably 100’s of billions of dollars on reproductive measures such as artificial insemination, reproductive focused hormonal drugs, test tube babies and who knows, probably quietly cloning themselves.

    They plan to stay here and reproduce, “by any means necessary!”

    Like I’ve said before, “the white woman gets pregnant and cries because she's happy, and the Black woman gets pregnant and cries because she's sad”

    What have they done to us, and what have we done to ourselves?


    All the well-known white female entertainers and public notables are getting pregnant, and the Black ones are single and sometimes have even questionable sexual preferences.

    All the pregnancy test commercials are geared towards white women, all the planned parenthood info is geared toward Black women and the third world.

    While Black women are still fighting and defending the last fort of the white woman’s suffrage movement, Gloria Steinman dropped her act and went got her a husband; Terry McMillan while putting on her act of defiance, ignorantly and naively went out and got her a homosexual!

    How is it some people are so flexible, while others are, like grand mama’s bible said, are so “stiff necked and hard head”

    When will we wake up Black people?

    We are like a relic of a breaking down backhoe, digging our own graves with our mouths, and burying our future with our convoluted thoughts and righteous indignation.

    Peace
    Brother Sun Ship:cool:
     
  9. Riada

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    Before I came on this site, I would have clapped loudly at some of the points you made here. After being on this site where there are so many threads where Brotha after Brotha blames Black women for having the babies that she's left with to fend for on her own and then blaming her further for not bringing the children up right which they then say is causing all of the problems in the Black community, why would any intelligent woman fall for this?

    Who's going to INSURE that the father of the children does what he's supposed to do? IMO, only a lesser intelligent Black woman would go along with this.
    Black women don't have the supports that white women have, either man-wise or family-wise. Many Black women don't have men in their lives who value their children the way some other men value theirs. The emphasis here needs to be on teaching Black men here to place a high value on their children and on the beauty of long-term marital relationships. That alone would solve so many of the problems. Not all. But, if that becomes the case, I think that a lot of the more educated or intelligent Black women might consider having quite a few more children.
     
  10. Sun Ship

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    Sister Riada, you turned around and basically made this into a quagmire and/or gender wrestling issue. Look, you’re contradicting yourself.

    Here we have a thread that basically says "stand up Black man!" and take care of your children, woman and the well being of your family “by any means necessary”. Then you tear down the threads original preposition in one set of statements and submit it as a suppositions in another set of statements! :confused:

    Like I said, “we’re damned if we do and we’re damned if we don’t!”

    What?! Who’s going to insure that the birth control pills and devices won’t give you cancer…the white man?!

    Who’s going to insure you anything in this world?
    Are you sure about this?
    Are you sure that white man values his own children?

    For If he did, he wouldn’t be sending them to Iraq to die, so he can keep driving his SUV’s!

    Do you really know the history of the white man and how he treated his woman? Let a white man loose his security, his job and his self-esteem, and see who dies next after he kills his wife, his mother-law and all his children!

    You are looking at this from the eyes that have been made for you by another’s design.


    For no matter how low-down that white man, Arab, chinese man has historically been and still are in many cases, especially in how he treated his woman, she still will "bear the likeness of him and herself for him", and love doing it!



    Peace
     
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