Black Relationships : Spinoff of the Lesbianism Thread

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  1. Monetary

    Monetary going above and beyond PREMIUM MEMBER

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    Is the pain/hurt experienced from several bad relationships with the opposite sex that great that you would actually turn to someone of the same sex?

    I've been hurt deeply by women that I've loved dearly, but I have NEVER thought of going to the same sex for intimate pleasure, etc. because of the small number of women who have hurt me.

    If you would turn to the same sex for this purpose, could you share your reasons why?
     
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    never can i cross not even in a dream
    surely hurt by females or partner in many way
    but to become with the same sex is crazy
     
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    Monetary going above and beyond PREMIUM MEMBER

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    I think this question is a little too personal. hahahaha
     
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    given time many will see
    answers will become of thee
     
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    H-E-double hokey sticks (for Destee's sake) to da NAW
     
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    i'm not an equal opportunity employer: women need not apply!
     
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    heard dat !
     
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    Fortunately...I have never been hurt by a woman but even if I had. ..I would never consider it...I can't fathum how a man can be aroused by another hairy a** man...lol.
     
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    HECK NO!! That cracks me up. Pain and hurt will occur some time in your life...but you keep on living. Learn, grow and move on. But NOTHING could make me date a woman.

    Eventually women who stop dating men are hurt by other women, yet they don't start dating doggies...so no excuse is acceptable for either sex to stop dating who they were MEANT to be with.

    One of my cousins started dating women because her boyfriend beat the crap out of her. But I think she always wanted to be with women anyway, that was her first and only boyfriend. She only dated him because my preacher grandmother would have given her the blues for being with a woman. But after my grandmother died, she immediately began keeping company with women. BUT her excuse is that men are abusive.
     
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    SOCIETY HAS A DOUBLE STANDARD WITH THAT ANYWAY. WOMEN CAN BE "GAY FOR A DAY" AND COME BACK TO THE FELLAS LATER WITH VERY LITTLE PROBLEM. BUT ONCE A GUY CROSSES OVER THERE AINT NO FORGIVING HIM. HE'S USUALLY STUCK ON "PUNK MODE" FOR GOOD.


    THAT'S MY "BIG" OPINION.
     
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