When a person tells you negative things about you that they know isn't true but too proud to admit it, it usually means they are not as educated, sexy, intelligent, and don't have certain advantages that you have and they wish to enjoy , but instead, they are jealous of you. God has given you a lot of things to be thankful for and at the end of the day, that person who has said things to tear you down, and rub in your face the things that you may be lacking that they have (that they never worked for), doesn't even compare to what you have. Rather than cry, roll over and play dead from their insults and hurtful words, take it as whatever they are and whatever they may have, doesn't even come close to what you have. Yeah they may have a gang of friends/family to go to to fight their battles and give them things that they couldn't or wouldn't even get on their own because they are lazy, but in reality they are no better than you are really. You are way better than them, even though they act like they are better than you. They know deep down that they aren't, and it eats them up day by day to where they have more and more negative things to say about you and to you. When things don't go their way and you don't play by their rules, they fight you. They want to find out things about you and put you in a box and control you, and rub in your face what God has blessed you with and that you worked hard for. When they make decisions and the results don't turn out like they like, instead of taking responsibility for those decisions, they blame you instead and make you feel like the worst person in the world and try to make you feel like no one wants anything to do with you. They try to take everything away from you that you know that you have worked hard for. And that same person who has been hating on you now doesn't want anything to do with you because they know that the folks in their circle even see that something is wrong with them. It's called shame and embarrassment. That's their issue, and you can only grow and learn from it and continue to utilize the blessings God has given you. Have a nice day.