Black Relationships : Sleeping In The Other Room

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  1. CarrieMonet

    CarrieMonet Well-Known Member MEMBER

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    What are your thoughts on married couples having separate bedrooms? Do you think this occurs due to NOISE/SNORING, or other reasons? Would you consider a separate bedroom from your spouse?
     
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    I don't think that's normal, IMO. I could never do it. I need to be able to touch and feel while I sleep. That's the only way I sleep good is being able to grab a little booty here and there. I guess if you're with a person that snores, talks or farts alot in their sleep that can be a little annoying, but I don't see how that could work. The intimacy seems like it would suffer. Being in bed with someone is very important to me. :smokin:
     
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    Hey, I'm with you on that one. Not only just the intimacy, but I'd like to make love as much as possible or when the mood hits. I can't imagine a lifetime of having my mate in another room.

    But I'm assuming there are reasons some couples choose to live this way.
     
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    Yeah, i just don't see how that would make things better. In my opinion it would only make things worse and more distant. It wouldn't even feel like a marriage. It's like you'd have a nice dinner and watch a movies and maybe a little kissing, then you go upstairs and go to seperate rooms. Or after the "deed" one of you has to get up and walk back your room. That's not HOT. If you get an urge in the middle of the night, instead of rolling over and kissing your spouses neck or lips (or other stuff) you have to put on your slippers and walk all the way to the other room. Too inconvenient for me.
     
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    I know alot of older couples have the two seperate bedrooms mostly because one takes ill. As for me, I rather see and feel my mate next to me. Snoring and all. :boring: :love:
     
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    What about sleep-farting? :lol: :lol:
     
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    I didn't understand, ...did you say separate rooms or houses? :lol: just joking.
    In my opinion only..I just couldn't imagine separate bedrooms, in no shape form or fashion, because when we got married, we took a vow to love each other til death do us part ...now I don't conciter ...
    snoring,
    farting,
    teeth griting (which I hate),
    Illness, or
    old age
    a death do us part kinda problem, now I or him will vacate the premises in a "new york minute, if things ain't right, and vows or no vows...I won't stay in a love-less relationship where he's in one room, and I'm in the other. That just simply :nono: won't work, because I refuse to sleep "single" ...in a double bed. :wink:
     
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    LOL! Of course Brother! I will fart on him as much as possible!LOL!
     
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    it's been said and known that once mates reach a age they move to
    different beds separating sometime it's due to illiness but i gotta be
    next to my mate i love to feel my way in bed and touch my Queen
    no matter what or how old i get .......she can fart // snor // burp !
    i'll just hit her back wit one of mines and the games starts da poot game
    lol
     
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    I aint playing the two bedroom thing. I am a touchy feely person, I like to snuggle and be held ….so when ya get to talking bout that two bedroom thing you mind as well move out... :wink:

    now if it comes to one of us being sick, got them tubes and stuff ok but other then that forget it!!!

    well, rich you got a point...but no pooting..:lol: we both have to go to the other bed room....smh

    QueenT i hear ya!!! ...I won't stay in a love-less relationship either
     
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