there's this white guy I'm into. he likes me, too, and says that he loves black women for...well, the same reasons someone'd probably drool over Beyonce.
but well, he lives kind of far away..and the thing is that he's only dated skinny white women before, because that's basically all that he sees on a daily basis. it makes me wonder if he's really ready for someone who isn't stick-thin although I know it shouldn't matter. (and I'm not trying to imply that he doesn't like me for anything more than my figure. he's a very sweet guy.) but I saw this girl he used to go out with. he used to say how pretty she was (i knew him when they were still dating) and she's SO skinny. her looks were not at all the reason things didn't work out.
so the other day i was actually contemplating losing weight when I'm exactly where I think I should be. I find Mary J Blige attractive while I also like Keri Hilson, but it's bothering me..
how is it that super-skinny white women can be considered healthy while thicker black women can be considered healthy as well? is it about how quick someone's able to burn the fat or what?
first of all
when u consider dating someone tha last thing u want to do to URSELF is compare URSELF to an x
u find mary j blige and keri hilson attractive
perhaps what's bothering u is that u want to lose weight
one of my sister's was overweight and SHE was unhappy about it
finally loss weight, and she radiates, not because she lost weight but because she "FEELS" good about herself
she changed outside and inside, because it took COURAGE for her to look at herself
u attract to urself however u feel about urself
this is the Law of Attraction
like when i was a lil girl... i use to get REAL MAD cause girls i didn't know would be like "she think she cute"....
but the truth is .. i do..... but in a way that i feel good inside, so people are attracted to that
FEEL GOOD ABOUT U FIRST
THEN DECIDE WHAT UR LOOKING FOR
Much Love and Peace
AFTER SHE LOSS WEIGHT WE HAD A LONG TALK
SHE SAID... U DON'T LIKE MY HUSBAND HUGH?
ME... NAH
HER... WHY U DIDN'T SAY ANYTHING
ME... U NEVER ASKED
HER... MOM ALWAYS SAID U WERE THE GLUE, WHY DIDN'T U TELL ME
ME... U NEVER ASKED, AND IF U DIDN'T ASK U DIDN'T WANT TO HEAR WHAT I WOULD SAY
HER... WHY DON'T U LIKE HIM
ME... CAUSE HE SMOKES CRACK, SLEPT WITH SOMEONE ELSE, HIS MOTHER THOUGHT IT WOULD BE NICE TO CALL U AND TELL U HE GOT HIS X PREGNANT AND U LOST UR BABY
I DON'T LIKE HIM BECAUSE U SETTLED BECAUSE OF UR WEIGHT, U ALREADY KNOW WHAT "CRACK" DOES, AND AT THE LEAST, HE HAS NO RESPECT FOR HIS WIFE'S BODY IF SOMEONE ELSE IS PREGNANT AT THE SAME TIME... U DON'T KNOW THAT U DIDN'T LOSE UR BABY BECAUSE OF HIS DIRTY WAYS
SHE DIVORCED HIM
Point when u feel good about urself, the people u choose to become a part of ur life get
REALLY SELECTIVE