there's this white guy I'm into. he likes me, too, and says that he loves black women for...well, the same reasons someone'd probably drool over Beyonce. but well, he lives kind of far away..and the thing is that he's only dated skinny white women before, because that's basically all that he sees on a daily basis. it makes me wonder if he's really ready for someone who isn't stick-thin although I know it shouldn't matter. (and I'm not trying to imply that he doesn't like me for anything more than my figure. he's a very sweet guy.) but I saw this girl he used to go out with. he used to say how pretty she was (i knew him when they were still dating) and she's SO skinny. her looks were not at all the reason things didn't work out. so the other day i was actually contemplating losing weight when I'm exactly where I think I should be. I find Mary J Blige attractive while I also like Keri Hilson, but it's bothering me.. how is it that super-skinny white women can be considered healthy while thicker black women can be considered healthy as well? is it about how quick someone's able to burn the fat or what?