Black Women : Sisters - You're Not Allowed To Post In Brother's Thread

Discussion in 'Black Women - Mothers - Sisters - Daughters' started by Chevron Dove, Mar 12, 2010.

  1. Chevron Dove

    Chevron Dove Well-Known Member MEMBER

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    But aren't you censoring him?

    What dictates that he should bow to someone because, in your judgment, 'they are elders' and he does not agree with something? What do you propose he do if he don't agree? Conform?

    What about freedom of speech?

    At least he has balls.

    ...Persecution...

    No, I don't agree with everything he says but, why is being attacked like this? I don't get it.
     
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    Thank you,

    I'm not really attacking Ankhur, I am questioning his tactics.

    Ankhur can question any one, on any thing. but he is putting them down for not coming up with the resolutions that would satisfy him, for our different communities. He pushes people here for what he wants from us.

    most black people are not here for him.

    No one here should be, beholding to Ankhur for any thing!.


     
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    I definitely can understand you on the issue of 'tact'.

    although I love Ankhur, I see that he gets at some other brothers on this forum that i appreciate and, i choose not to get inbetween their issues.

    I think he is zeaulous though and very forward. But, even if 'most people' are not for him, still, that is not the whole and it does not do BLACK PEOPLE any good to gang up on him and persecute him for freedom of speech.

    Aren't we COLLECTIVE victims of that kind of behavior?
     
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    I totally agree.

    I don't normally bother with this sort of thing.

    I have too much on my plate. but it's also the case that we need to help our brothers who are not seeing what they do!

    I have tried before, but was atacted for it. so I backed off!
    It's not some personal thing for me, Ankhur knows this. He just not like to be challenged. I for one can understand that. That's why I usually let him be.

    But ankhur I'm really trying to help.

    pushing people to do any thing never works. One can show by example or one and just help people directly. But putting people down for not doing what you want never works! Period!
     
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    Awesome advice!

    Thank you.
     
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    the brother has a hate fetish regarding my number of posts and defending myself from insults from folks who have been on hiatus, and it is interesting that my haters rarely have anything to post regading news or the general good of te Black community
     
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    Who are these people you're speaking of Ankur?


    What evidence do you have that Brother Corvo has any kind of "hate fetish" against you?
     
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    Brother Ankhur,

    Do you know what 'a peacemaker' represents? A peacemaker steps in and puts themselves in harms way for a good cause and can take on alot of persecution for this cause.

    Brother Ankhur, I stepped in because I love you. Brother Corvo took the time to speak on the issue and I so appreciate his guestures, his manhood. he spoke peaceful words ON YOUR BEHALF. Give it some time. Brother Ankhur in my opinion, DISCRETION is such a great virtue.

    Perhaps it would be a good approach to not think of this as being 'hate mongering' situation but just deal with the issue at hand. It just might be that your ideals are coming off too demanding and some posters are feeling that pressure and they are addressing this.

    Much Love.
     
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    For the Record men and women alike can post in these forums
    it was one topic that we would love to see only male and female in
    we are all part of this collective tree that has fallen .

    secondly we shouldn't post such that we haven't said or put into action
    as management, this trend we in and pointing is beyond where we need to go and be

    Remember when it rain and if you come from under the umbrella you get wet !

    stay dry family and supportive
     
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