Black Relationships : Sisters - Stop Letting Men Mistreat You - You Are No Where Near as Weak and Fragile as You Claim!

[MsVeraisblessed]

I remember an old "Good Times" episode when Florida told James that he wanted to let the wolf (J.J.) out the door but wanted to lock up "little red riding hood" (Thelma). ----She was telling him how he would puff out his chest about his son's escapades but his "wolf" son was going out with somebody's daughter too.

Yeah i remember that scene...

James was always patting his son on the back when it came down to J.J. talk'n and date'n girls. I mean they was fine black girls too. As soon Thelma is going on a date, James be looking at them boys crazy like he going stomp a mudhole in they behind

 

[cherryblossom]

Yeah i remember that scene...

James was always patting his son on the back when it came down to J.J. talk'n and date'n girls. I mean they was fine black girls too. As soon Thelma is going on a date, James be looking at them boys crazy like he going stomp a mudhole in they behind

Yep....Same thing between your daughter and "4 rottweiler sons" and their sister.----They're going out with somebody's sister and daughter too.

...I remember when I started "developing." ---My brothers didn't wanna let me out the house! lol

I could barely walk to the corner store for a soda! lol

 

[MsVeraisblessed]

she's going thru the same thing...po' chile..

 

[Destee]

I remember an old "Good Times" episode when Florida told James that he wanted to let the wolf (J.J.) out the door but wanted to lock up "little red riding hood" (Thelma). ----She was telling him how he would puff out his chest about his son's escapades but his "wolf" son was going out with somebody's daughter too.

Yeah i remember that scene...

James was always patting his son on the back when it came down to J.J. talk'n and date'n girls. I mean they was fine black girls too. As soon Thelma is going on a date, James be looking at them boys crazy like he going stomp a mudhole in they behind

I remember that scene too, but it's so different for the boys, than the girls.

This aint about the boys right now, no more than not letting them do you.

Boys think, act, respond, and ultimately have different consequences regarding sex.

They are more like wolves ... more aggressive ... on the hunt ... it seems part of their dna.

They're gonna take your stuff if you leave it laying out there, if not one, then another will.

Sisters must keep and hold on to their stuff, and if they can't or don't, it's on her alone.

Brothers don't feel about your stuff, the way you do, not like you do ... he has to grow to that.

It's the way it is. Boys and Girls are different, and will occasionally need to be treated different.

Yeah ... Brothers got some lessons to learn too ... but even if they never learn ... then what?

You just keep make'n babies for 'em, crying 'bout how they treat you, and keep feed'n em?

You mad 'cause they won't stop you from being foolish?! You want them to stop the gravy train you're providing?!

Please. Lay a dollar in the middle of the street, and see what happens. It's gonna get took / picked up / sump'n.

You make it too easy for 'em ... shoot, they aint even gotta pick the dollar up ... some of us will do that too.

Sisters could stop some of these tears they cry'n ... they own self ... and should.

If you wait'n for a Brother to stop mistreating you, on his own, you might better bring your lunch.

Love You!



Destee

 

[cherryblossom]

I remember that scene too, but it's so different for the boys, than the girls.

This aint about the boys right now, no more than not letting them do you.

Boys think, act, respond, and ultimately have different consequences regarding sex.

They are more like wolves ... more aggressive ... on the hunt ... it seems part of their dna.

They're gonna take your stuff if you leave it laying out there, if not one, then another will.

Sisters must keep and hold on to their stuff, and if they can't or don't, it's on her alone.

Brothers don't feel about your stuff, the way you do, not like you do ... he has to grow to that.

It's the way it is. Boys and Girls are different, and will occasionally need to be treated different.

Yeah ... Brothers got some lessons to learn too ... but even if they never learn ... then what?

You just keep make'n babies for 'em, crying 'bout how they treat you, and keep feed'n em?

You mad 'cause they won't stop you from being foolish?! You want them to stop the gravy train you're providing?!

Please. Lay a dollar in the middle of the street, and see what happens. It's gonna get took / picked up / sump'n.

You make it too easy for 'em ... shoot, they aint even gotta pick the dollar up ... some of us will do that too.

Sisters could stop some of these tears they cry'n ... they own self ... and should.

If you wait'n for a Brother to stop mistreating you, on his own, you might better bring your lunch.

Love You!



Destee

Ummm....You "preaching to the choir" with me. lol

I even wrote a POEM about it: http://destee.com/index.php?threads/beneficiaries.61239/