I was challenged to start this thread so we can get some dialogue going. So here it is: Sisters, I lay down a challenge to you to be 100% honest with your answers. I promise that I do not ask these questions to typecast you in any way. 1 - Do you prefer more that the brothers you date are ready-made (house and car paid for or close, investing, successful manager/business owner, financial overflow, fully insured, etc.) Or that he is mr. Full of potential (anywhere between 0 and 75% of mr. Ready-made status)? 2 - explain honestly. Men: I ask that you let our sisters speak freely and to not respond. By offering this courtesy, we may also be granted an all-honesty, no-penalty thread to give our expressions. Alright, sisters. Whatcha got?