Black Parenting : SINGLE MOTHERS....MULTIPLE FATHERS!

[chuck]

For the umpteenth time....

The woman is stuck with the baby while the man makes another baby! When will you and the woman learn to "THINK" the consequences is more on her than it is on the man?!! Think about the consequences and the present. Who cares how the baby is made....what matters is "WHO" is stuck taking care of it by themselves.

And once again, the topic is about last names....not who's to blame. If you desire to discuss who's to blame make a thread about it and I will discuss it there....but I don't think this community wants those types of threads.

Chuck:

Not claiming to speak for anybody but me, but emotions run high, issues and problems folk too often merely rant about, also
in all due candor and honesty, you merely seem to be theorizing, and what others might be expecting you to do is present a workable solution?

Just my proverbial 'two cents'...

FYI...

 

[Luv_Doctor]

Chuck:

First of all?

Some of us don't post on the basis of popularity contests...

Second of all?

Those who post back are listening (if they aren't always agreeing with you)...

Third of all?

Some reply back (and may or may not reply further)...

Me?

We have to agree to disagree...

I. e., these are complex issues and problems, and it's about more than just individuals needing to hear another lecture, another sermon...

No disrespect intended or meant or likewise...

Just wanted to know how I was preceived on here that's all. If you ask someone about me they will tell you I don't care how people feel about me when I deliver my message. It's the message that's more important. It's up to others to listen. That's their choice.

 

[Luv_Doctor]

Chuck:

Not claiming to speak for anybody but me, but emotions run high, issues and problems folk too often merely rant about, also
in all due candor and honesty, you merely seem to be theorizing, and what others might be expecting you to do is present a workable solution?

Just my proverbial 'two cents'...

FYI...

My purpose is to share my life's experiences and wisdom so people can avoid getting hurt in relationships. In order to build healthier relationships, I spend enormous time getting people to "THINK" about the situations they place themselves in . Everyone wants to blame someone.....but no one wants to admit the part they played (to reflect) of their demise. And most of those demises starts with "CHOICES" -- and choices is "ownership" -- one of the reasons why I'm not trying to hear it's both people's faults!

For a woman, a man can only do what a woman "ALLOWS" him to do. So if I can get a woman to spot a BSer and not give him none -- then she will never get pregnant by someone that don't mean her well.

The workable solution to "THIS" topic is, if women want multiple kids with multiple men, GIVE ALL THE KIDS YOUR NAME AND NOT THE MAN'S NAME. This way, no one will look at you twisted like the humiliating joke I posted on this thread.

 

[$$RICH$$]

The workable solution is understanding the woman point of view , her situation
and to teach that both party is at fault and to end this trend whould be promoting
protection to stop this multi-fathers and different name claim and to nourish our
women/ comfort them be there and show love to them
open men eyez to stop the corruption against women this the solution path

 

[Destee]

"Brother Luv_Doctor said his site hosts such fights ..."

Destee....I never said such a thing.

My website "PROMOTES" rights to opinions and to express those opinions. As your member "ENERGY" said: " How are we going to have a meaningful debate with threats flying all over the place huh?"

I only came here to make people "THINK" about their actions. If it's not appreciated and I'm causing trouble, I can simply leave quietly.

You most certainly did say such a thing ... you said, and i quote ...

[THIS HAS BEEN THE MOST CONTROVERSIAL TOPIC OF MY WEBSITE WITH MANY FIGHTS CAUSED BEHIND IT].

More importantly though, is our policy against gender war fights being held here.

We're of the opinion that respectful and responsible adults can broach topics in ways that do not incite .... and if not, don't come here.

I recognize the logic behind inciting folk, it increases activity, traffic, and ultimately money on the Internet ... but i don't want it at this price.

Not only does it incite, but it's ridiculous for you to be preaching management principles for vaginas, and you don't have one ... right?

Yeah ... you take this back to your site, where you host such, 'cause i don't want it here.

Sisters need to be encouraged, lifted up, embraced ... not diminished ... and if you can't do that, please, just leave them alone.

To The Single Mother Sisters : bring yourself and ALL da babies right on with you ... come on home to destee's! ...

This thread is closed.



Destee