Black Relationships : Signs of Jealousy

[legit-writer]

Some people believe jealousy is a sign of love. But real love involves trust and communication, not accusations and snooping. When jealous behaviour becomes a problem, it's most often a manifestation of the jealous person's own insecurities and self-esteem issues. Here's some signs that you may have a problem with jealousy:

1) Feeling compelled to track your partner's every minute of time
2) Becoming overly upset when your partner is unavailable
3) Calling your partner multiple times to check up
4) Feeling tempted to flirt with others just to 'show' a supposedly cheating partner
5) Interpreting a partner's fatigue, illness, or distraction as a sign that you are not loved
6) Compulsions to snoop into a partner's e-mail, cell phone records or other private communications

Any more to add to the list? Keep them coming!

 

[PurpleMoons]

Some people believe jealousy is a sign of love. But real love involves trust and communication, not accusations and snooping. When jealous behaviour becomes a problem, it's most often a manifestation of the jealous person's own insecurities and self-esteem issues. Here's some signs that you may have a problem with jealousy:

1) Feeling compelled to track your partner's every minute of time
2) Becoming overly upset when your partner is unavailable
3) Calling your partner multiple times to check up
4) Feeling tempted to flirt with others just to 'show' a supposedly cheating partner
5) Interpreting a partner's fatigue, illness, or distraction as a sign that you are not loved
6) Compulsions to snoop into a partner's e-mail, cell phone records or other private communications

Any more to add to the list? Keep them coming!

Sounds more like an inability to communicate an understanding efficiently on both parties. The unwillingness to understand the feelings and/or needs of the other.

 

[Clyde C Coger Jr]

In the Spirit of Sankofa and Truth!

Sounds more like an inability to communicate an understanding efficiently on both parties. The unwillingness to understand the feelings and/or needs of the other.

PurpleMoons,

I agree and it's certainly good to have you back and posting again my sister friend, for real, Purple!

 

[ashley87]

i agree totally with sister purplemoons. that actions could be due to the lack of communications, not necessarily signs of jalousy

 

[jamesfrmphilly]

never had no need to feel jealous.
i knew nobody could cut my game.

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