Let me help you again. Here's a scenario to draw from. A pair of strangers are shopping in a supermarket. One is a BW and the other is a BM. They are both standing in line waiting to get to the register. The BW overhears the BM say to himself, not loudly "**** she got a phat ***!"
The BW thinking he was talking about her, turns around and slaps the BM, not realizing that he was looking at a picture and some videos on his phone referring to a person that sent them, not the woman on line.
What he was doing did not have anything to do with this BW in the store.
The BM stunned, slaps her back almost as fast as she slapped him. They are not a couple, nor in a relationship. I wanna know why is it unfair for that man to slap that woman back for slapping him 1st? 1st off the man was not guilty of why that woman slapped him.
After he slapped her back, the woman is stunned because she cant believe he had the audacity to slap her back when she is a woman. A BW at that. She believes in double standards. She believes it's unfair and wrong for a man to slap a woman, even if she slaps him 1st.
What should the woman have done, when she heard his comment? Before she slapped the man. How about making sure he wasnt addressing or referring to her? Thats a good start. Next, how about doing nothing. Dont say **** to the man, because she doesnt know if he is a psycho or deranged. The main lesson here is this........just because a woman believes she has entitlements of not being hit by a man, doesnt mean she should test them out on strangers. She just might end up with more than her feelings hurt.