Gotcha, so you're cool with a Black Woman getting slapped by someone (man or woman) if she initiates the slap.
No, thats you making that assumption. I said I understand how and why it happened. My statement equates to having an understanding of what can happen if an individual attacks the wrong person.
In general, ok, I'm witchu. I can see a Black Woman walking up to another Black Woman, slaps her and the other woman returns the slap. Fair.
I doubt very much that you are with me. You dont have the depth for that. Because if you did, I wouldnt have to repeat my answers that I already gave over and over again. I see you have a double standard when it comes to who initiates assaults, and who is the victim of an assault. Two women assaulting each other, is fair game. A woman initiating slapping a man 1st, unprovoked, the man slaps her back.......you are not cool with that. Would that be a fair statement? If it is, why is it unfair for a man to slap a woman back, who assaulted him 1st?
But you think it's fair for a woman to slap back, a woman that hit her 1st. Why the double standard? Elaborate on this, because the problem I see is that you have a particular bias when it comes to women and men defending themselves, and even more bias when it comes to a man defending himself from a BW assaulting him without provocation.
So you also believe the same is true for the woman slapping a man. I'mma agree only after I know all the facts. I can’t offer a blanket yes on that.
What I believe in, is not doing something stupid unless you ae able and willing to deal with the consequences for your actions/decisions. You already said that a woman is not exempt from consequences for assaulting other people. So whats so special about a BW? Does her being black and a woman exempt her from any consequences of her mindless decision to assault a man, unprovoked? The answer is no.
But basically, as it relates to physical violence, you advocate an eye for an eye. Ok, ok. Although many exceptions, most would probably side with you.
No, I dont readily advocate an eye for an eye. Many of folks have been seriously hurt or killed thinking like that. That they have to confront someone with violence, just because they are mad. Sometimes the best approach is to mitigate the possibility of violence. Not shoot from the hip, and expect because you are a female or "Im a BW" so Im entitled not to be hit back. None of that is gonna protect you in the real world.
You are kind of dense. Because you make false assumptions of a POV you didnt even read anywhere, worse there was no evidence or commentary to suggest that assumption. Where was it said someone advocates an eye for an eye? Show me the exact words saying that. Once again, I told you that I advocate what sister Ali spoke about. And that was a woman not putting herself in the position of getting hit by anybody. I dont care if the woman is black, white Asian, Indian or whatever.
I dont hold BW to a higher standard of whether she shouldnt be hit or not by a man that she assaulted 1st. BW better fall in line with the rest of the women on the planet, in not being stupid attacking others, and acting like they wont have consequences.
But here's a different question: what if the Black Woman fails to recognize that her man is the head of the house and she doesn't hit her man but she begins to "talk back," fail to do her "womanly duties" and things like that...she doesn't creep on him or even use profanity but she rebels against his authority. In such a scenario, should we slap her?
Explain to me how in the world would a woman with those F'ed up attributes go unseen and unchecked, and her getting a man to live with her in the same house? This aint the 1950's, 60's or 70's. These days most men wouldnt waste their time with a woman like that. They would have already been in the wind.
There's plenty of fish in the sea. And if there arent decent fish in one's home country, there's plenty of options abroad. Thats the thing. Men dont have to settle. They can go elsewhere. Not to mention, Ive talked to tons of men that have been married 2 or 3 times......as of now, they are happier and better off being single and/or living alone. They have also expressed being more prosperous and less stressed being single/alone too.
