Black People : Should We Allow the N Word to Be Used Here? Why or Why Not? Vote in the Poll Please.

Should We Allow the N Word to Be Used Here?

  • yes

    Votes: 2 10.5%
  • no

    Votes: 11 57.9%
  • not sure

    Votes: 6 31.6%

  • Total voters
    19

jamesfrmphilly

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Great. A man with perfect peace with no stress and no worries or who chooses to see them in a different way. Well that is remarkable and my hat is off to you.
i have found shifting the way i look at things has removed a lot of stress from my life.....it works
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Queenie

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i have found shifting the way i look at things has removed a lot of stress from my life.....it works
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Bro. James, along the lines of what you are saying is a quote from the movie I saw last night, "Brian Banks," ... “ALL YOU CAN CONTROL IN YOUR LIFE IS HOW YOU RESPOND TO LIFE”

Are there ever days when you lose control and don't hit the mark that you strive for? For example, do you ever lose your temper (hmmm, it's interesting that it's worded that way..."lose") and how do you recover from it?

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jamesfrmphilly

going above and beyond
PREMIUM MEMBER
Jun 18, 2004
38,393
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north philly ghetto
Occupation
retired computer geek
Bro. James, along the lines of what you are saying is a quote from the movie I saw last night, "Brian Banks," ... “ALL YOU CAN CONTROL IN YOUR LIFE IS HOW YOU RESPOND TO LIFE”

Are there ever days when you lose control and don't hit the mark that you strive for? For example, do you ever lose your temper (hmmm, it's interesting that it's worded that way..."lose") and how do you recover from it?

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it is a daily struggle. i get up and meditate and lay out my goals for that day.
i take stock at night and see what i need to correct. it's hard but it gets easier.

i have not lost my temper in a minute but fools be steady trying me.

if i can see it as another test i can step away quickly.
we can retrain ourselves. advertisers do it to us all the time.
that's what therapy is all about.

humans are the most malleable of animals.

"when you know better you do better" "each one teach one"
the guides are there for us. we just need to follow them.

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