- Aug 28, 2015
I think that is a bit shortsighted. You are bringing masculine energy, and she is bring feminine energy. And, they are quite different. During the courtship more is expected of you. But, in the grand scheme of things, she is taking more risks than you, imo.Lol. I really believe I bring to the table the same thing they bring to the table. The want/need us the same as we do them. I always keep in mind that they are getting the same pleasures that I am
Hopefully, she will be the one. You will get married, and then the games begin. She will be taking on a whole lot of resonsibilities you won't have to bear. You will have your friends over to watch the Super Bowl and you won't think twice about saying "Honey, will you bring us some beer?" She will cook and clean your home. She will bear your children and raise them. Her body will be distorted in many ways, for you and the kids. And, she will probably work 40 hours a week too.
And, her biggest fear will be that you might leave her with all those kids to raise them alone. Or, you might even stay, yet require her to raise the kids alone.
The courtship may last a few months, but the marriage will last decades. And, that's when the risks are all hers.