Black Teenagers : should i go with him?

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  1. shyberry379

    shyberry379 Member MEMBER

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    A while ago I told yall how I was goin out with a boy that was 3yrs older than me and I lied to him about my age. Well that didnt work out and we broke up like last week. Me and my sisters have a page on blackplanet and so does my ex-boo cousin(this happened last month). Well he sent me a message askin if i was his cousin gurl and I said yea. But we was talkin anyway.Well now that me and his cousin dont go out no more he want to go with me. I like him alot but I dont think that would be right. Please give me some advice.

    Should I go with him...
    Should we just stay close friends...
    Should I jus tell him that we cant be nothin (not friends)


    THanks

    If u wanna see mine,miss-no-love and my other sister page go to
    members.blackplanet.com/315_3sistahzz
     
  2. jamesfrmphilly

    jamesfrmphilly going above and beyond PREMIUM MEMBER

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    no, no, no.......

    don't go nowhere with no body.
    go home and read a book!
     
  3. karmashines

    karmashines Banned MEMBER

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    How old are you?

    If you are under 18 I would not advise you going with someone 3 years older. And if you are less than 15, you have no business dating.
     
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    i agree with james.. go read a book. You can learn from others mistakes from reading.. so you wont feel dumfounded when you make your own.. hopefully you wont repeat those u read of! Start wilth "the coldest winter ever" BY SISTAH SOULJAH.. by the time u get thru that.. u should be over him!
     
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    NO!!!!!!!!!!!!!

    Under no circumstances do you date him. You've already been with his cuz. You're about to become the pass around chick!
     
  6. Peachez~n~Rhyme

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    no

    dont go out with him again because if it was the right thing to do from the jump yall would still be together, and plus you just broke up with his cousin how that make you look, this could turn into a triangle something you dont want to happen
     
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    shyberry379 Member MEMBER

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    im 15 and i didnt do anything with my ex
     
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    jamesfrmphilly going above and beyond PREMIUM MEMBER

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    what is your GPA?
     
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    karmashines Banned MEMBER

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    You should not go with him then.

    Most 18-year-olds knowingly going with 15-year-olds more likely than not have bad intentions. Even assuming he's still in highschool, there's a big difference between someone 18 and someone 15.

    If you are going to date, you need to find someone your same age and grade.
     
  10. shyberry379

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    my gpa is 90.72
     
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