Black People : SHOPPING FOR COMPANIONSHIP

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  1. HODEE

    HODEE Well-Known Member MEMBER

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    Many times it is hard to find someone you can really relate to.
    So if you could shop for all the right qualities in a mate or friend.:cook:

    Would you do it… well here is your chance... just have fun

    I am at work and will do mine later. Is that OK...?

    My boss doesn’t want me to be happy.

    So he limits me on the computer and watches over my shoulder.
    Tonight I will shop until I drop... I am gonna blow my Dollar on some good stuff.

    I hope she is out there! Do a quote of the list

    Fill it out and submit… You may win the lottery.

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    SHOPPING FOR COMPANIONSHIP​



    You are given $1.00 dollar to purchase a Companion.
    Below are different characteristics from which you can choose.
    Don’t spend more than $1.00 dollar. Explain your reasons for choosing your selections.


    Assemble your best mate / friend and have fun.

    AMT.

    _____ Intelligent

    _____ Sensitive

    _____ Sense of Humor

    _____ Understanding

    _____ Accepting



    _____ A Great Listener

    _____ Religious

    _____ Honest

    _____ Loyal

    _____ Fun to be with



    _____ Great Dresser / Clothes

    _____ Popular

    _____ Rich

    _____ Attractive

    _____ Athletic

    _____ Good Kisser

    _____ Nice Hair _____ ( specify – L for long or S for short )

    _____ Great Lover

    _____ Willing to experiment


    ______ ( Free write In _____________________________ )

    ______ ( Free write In _____________________________ )

    ______ ( Free write In _____________________________ )
     
  2. mari

    mari Well-Known Member MEMBER

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    thanks for the post Hodee .. its just what I was looking for at 1.45am :laugh:

    I'm going to spend my $1.00 4 ways


    25c Intelligent

    25c Honest

    15c Sense of Humor

    35c Willing to Experiment :wine:
     
  3. HODEE

    HODEE Well-Known Member MEMBER

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    Cash well Spent.. baby are u out there?

    I chose the following characteristics.

    Understanding = $.20

    I need a companion that is understanding. Someone who can appreciate what you do and have done and values effort. It is equity building in a relationship. They appreciate your contributions. An understanding companion is supportive, grateful and brings the best out in a person.

    Intelligent = $.20

    I need a companion that is bright. It’s like getting a great talker all in one with a wide array of conversation topics to tease my mind. I really like the mental stimulation an intelligent person brings. They can bring one moment witty conversation. The next inspiring conversation. An intellectual person to me is someone who may not be familiar with the subject at the time it is mentioned but knows enough to keep their interest peeked and asks inquisitive probing questions reaching understanding.

    Honest = $.20

    Because I like honesty. I feel I am honest in my relationships. I don’t do anything to gain the upper hand in a situation. Truthful, sincere and genuine is what an honest person is. They are real with you. They tell you the truth. Are not hypocritical, is supportive in their candid approach of straight talk.

    Fun to be with = $.20

    No dull moments. Exciting and bring out the smiles and sunshine. If doing nothing is the idea of the day. A person that is fun to be with. Can do all that nothing with you that day. If going until the sun goes down like whirl wind from one event, to another. Starting with a wonderful breakfast, maybe a fancy lunch at a new restaurant on the other side of town. Darting back with you to the other side of town for a lovely dinner and then home. That is a fun person to be with. Then there are those nothing but let’s cuddle and talk days. Reaching understanding. Of things and each other. Sleeping in if that is desired.

    Good Kisser = $.20
    Because I will be kissing my girl. A companion that doesn’t mind intimacy. Holding hands. Hugs and kisses. Being touched. Don’t mind being admired.


    SHOPPING FOR COMPANIONSHIP​



    You are given $1.00 dollar to purchase a Companion.
    Below are different characteristics from which you can choose.

    Don’t spend more than $1.00 dollar. Explain your reasons for choosing your selections.

    Assemble your best mate / friend and have fun.

    AMT.

    __$.20___ Intelligent

    _____ Sensitive

    _____ Sense of Humor

    ___$.20__ Understanding

    _____ Accepting



    _____ A Great Listener

    _____ Religious

    ___$.20__ Honest

    _____ Loyal

    ___$.20__ Fun to be with



    _____ Great Dresser / Clothes

    _____ Popular

    _____ Rich

    _____ Attractive

    _____ Athletic

    __$.20___ Good Kisser

    _____ Nice Hair _____ ( specify – L for long or S for short )

    _____ Great Lover

    _____ Willing to experiment


    ______ ( Free write In _____________________________ )

    ______ ( Free write In _____________________________ )

    ______ ( Free write In _____________________________ )
     
  4. Astrologer4U

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    __10___ Intelligent


    _10____ Accepting



    _10____ A Great Listener

    __10___ Rich

    _10____ Honest

    _10____ Loyal


    _10____ Fun to be with

    __10___ Attractive

    __10___ Athletic


    _10___ Willing to experiment
     
  5. HODEE

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    SHOPPING FOR COMPANIONSHIP​



    You are given $1.00 dollar to purchase a Companion.
    Below are different characteristics from which you can choose.

    Don’t spend more than $1.00 dollar. Explain your reasons for choosing your selections.

    Assemble your best mate / friend and have fun.

    AMT.

    _____ Intelligent

    _____ Sensitive

    _____ Sense of Humor

    _____ Understanding

    _____ Accepting



    _____ A Great Listener

    _____ Religious

    _____ Honest

    _____ Loyal

    _____ Fun to be with



    _____ Great Dresser / Clothes

    _____ Popular

    _____ Rich

    _____ Attractive

    _____ Athletic

    _____ Good Kisser

    _____ Nice Hair _____ ( specify – L for long or S for short )

    _____ Great Lover

    _____ Willing to experiment


    ______ ( Free write In _____________________________ )

    ______ ( Free write In _____________________________ )

    ______ ( Free write In _____________________________ )
     
  6. HODEE

    HODEE Well-Known Member MEMBER

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    WOW.. lets see now you want it all. That is Ok ...You have some interesting choses here A4U. Now the trick is this says a lot about the person choosing to purchase these qualities in a companion. They have all of them or portions of them all ready. They can achieve them or want to achieve these traits. I think listing them in this fashion will help in finding the right mate cause you have a list now. Lets play...you serve:tennis:

    Do you desire your companion to be RICh right at the start or can he share a dream and start building? Nothing wrong with cash today.. I am feeling lucky and I haven't checked my lottery ticket yet. Right now I am down by two dollars. ;)
     
  7. HODEE

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    Thank You mari


    Thank You mari.. you up late.. what you doing? Are you in a lab somewhere sewing together the best parts of this dude with the best parts of that one.:laugh:

    A sense of humor is important. There is something attractive about a sense of humor in a woman, that can laugh and tell a good joke every once in a while.

    Quite a bit of expenditure here.. Willing to experiment.. wine.. cheese what do you have in mind.. may I ask.
     
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    i'm spending 50 cents on "intelligent"

    and 25 cents on my write in characteristic

    i need somebody that's

    not programmed

    she will be hard to find

    but i'm patient

    and 25 cents on honest
     
  9. HODEE

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    Would that be an Open mind.. sir... good choice. I'll take that $.25
    Thank you for shopping for a companion.
     
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    Okay...here's how I'd spend my 1.00.

    20 cents Intelligent. I'd like us to be able to have a wide variety of topics to discuss.
    10 cents Sense of Humor. The gift of laughter can go a long way.
    20 cents Understanding. We all have many facets, I know I do, but can he understand them?
    20 cents Accepting. If he understands those facets, can he accept them?
    20 cents Honesty. No one is perfect, but please, tell me the truth most of the time.
    10 cents Good Kisser. :), no explanation needed...
     
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