The woman my ex was involved with works with me. When he left home, they were living together. I never knew the woman but had heard a name.. when she came to work I realised that she kept staring at me. It seem that she knew who I was. I was not introduced to her when she came, since I was not at my desk. So I took the time to ask her name. She said to me..."I can't tell you, because you would be angry with me.I wondered why she would say something like that. So I asked someone from Personnel what was her name and I found out that this was the same woman. She does not speak, but when I go the Human Resource department I usually say...Good Morning so that everyone can hear. One morning she had a severe asthma attack since perfumes and deodorants usually trigger them...I wondered to myself..what about the cologne my ex wore...did this bother her.