Black Relationships : She Works With Me

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  1. dunwiddat

    dunwiddat Well-Known Member MEMBER

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    The woman my ex was involved with works with me. When he left home, they were living together. I never knew the woman but had heard a name.. when she came to work I realised that she kept staring at me. It seem that she knew who I was. I was not introduced to her when she came, since I was not at my desk. So I took the time to ask her name. She said to me..."I can't tell you, because you would be angry with me.:(I wondered why she would say something like that. So I asked someone from Personnel what was her name and I found out that this was the same woman.

    She does not speak, but when I go the Human Resource department I usually say...Good Morning so that everyone can hear.

    One morning she had a severe asthma attack since perfumes and deodorants usually trigger them...I wondered to myself..what about the cologne my ex wore...did this bother her.:lol::lol:
     
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    Congratulations?
     
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    I'm going to assume you are telling this to us because you needed to get this off of your chest...or is there some advice or anything you would like to discuss further with this? Cause I really don't know what else to say.
     
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    dunwiddat Well-Known Member MEMBER

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    I really should have asked, if anyone has been in a situation like this before and how did it affect them. To be honest I really did not think about posting it until the previous post by legit-writer:)
     
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    Legit didn't post in here....guuuuurl u trippin lol....but I've never worked with a woman my ex dated or cheated on me with...
     
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    dunwiddat Well-Known Member MEMBER

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    Being Cheated On but Stay or Go.. this is the post that legit-writer posted in the Black Relationship forum.
     
  7. MsInterpret

    MsInterpret Well-Known Member MEMBER

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    GIRL You don't need to get all capitalization on me...First of all that is not a POST that is a THREAD.
     
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    dunwiddat Well-Known Member MEMBER

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    Those words were not capitalised. THIS IS CAPITILISATION. I now can see why so many Americans are disturbed:(sweating the small stuff.
     
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    I was jerkin (madea)...now whose being serious
     
  10. MsVeraisblessed

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    Anyway......@dunwiddat

    Hey girl....ahhh, now back to that story.....

    How would i act?.....hmmmm,...You know what,...you did the right thing...you acted like a woman should...there was no need to start drama with someone who took out your trash. Even tho i would've love to probe into her files a little bit and read her whole profile.. You know....mess with her head a little bit..... make her feel uncomfortable..
     
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