Black Relationships : She Keeps On passing You By???

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  1. spicybrown

    spicybrown Well-Known Member MEMBER

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    Hello there, Brothers, I would like to know what exactly it means when a woman "passes you by"!! Is it her refusal to look your way? Her refusal to speak? Or is it when she gives a snotty attitude when approached? My minds is in a tizzy!! Please explain whatitizzz!
     
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    All of the Above


    When you show me no interest in spite of my best efforts to get your attention
     
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    If she passes you by it's because of these things!

    1. she doesn't like you physically
    2. you are trying to hard
    3.she has been hurt so all men ain't chit for awhile
    4.she's playing hard to get
    5.she's a lesbian
    6.she has a man
    7.she likes the chase
    8.If she's shallow or a goldigger maybe you're not blinging enough for her
    9. she wants you to sweat her
    10. she only thinks you want a piece of booty
     
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    I dont get passed by
    Its all in your approach
    You cant make every woman say yes
    Not every woman will get with you
    But if I make her smile
    If she says hi
    I know I could have
    Sometimes I will just say hi
    Keep on steppin and they will say something to me
    Like thats it I be like yeah
    But I just sometimes get a number just too see
    If i can get it/I think the only time
    A woman passes a man is his approach
    Or what happened prior to her talking to you
    Thats the only reason i see a woman not talking
    Cause married woman talk/engaged woman talk/girlfriends talk
    Thats just todays society
     
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    All of the above.

    All of which is why I choose not to pursue women actively.

    I'm sorry to say, but Black women have a way of belittling men, if/when they are not interested in them.

    You may have a valid reason for not giving me your attention, but that does not mean you should make me feel unworthy (or worthless) of it. :(
     
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    SAMURAI, you are absolutely right!:blowkiss:
    We are sometimes so shallow in a sense of alot attributes we think we want in a man. Me myself honestly speaking , I have and never will belittle someone who is trying to get with me. There have been men who I don't find attractive or does not seem like my type but we can still share a cup of coffee,poetry and conversation because maybe he might be:coffee:
    Hell she might not be worthy of you.
    :blowkiss:
    How old are you Sam?
     
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    Thank you for not only for your response, but also for your open-mindedness. I wish more sisters thought like you.

    In this current incarnation on this planet, I am 34 years old.
     
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    cursed heart Well-Known Member MEMBER

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    :kiss1: You are more than welcome:kiss1: And thank you:kiss1:
    Sometimes I wish wasn't because all though I love my brothers they always break my heart in one way or a another:kiss1:
    Women also need to remember that real men are not afraid to be serious!
    That if a guy comes to you game free, see what he's about:kiss1:
    If a man has game than he usually wants to play them!
    Come real and come correct! Also look at the type of woman she is before you approach her and than look at yourself:kiss1:
    Nine times out of ten you know if you guys will hit it off!:kiss1:
     
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    She Keeps passing me by, and I Keep saying, "bye-bye", cause General Motors made more than one CADILLAC, and GOD made more than one woman... That's the way it's been since the beginning of time, and aint no sense - I said, NO SENSE - cryin' about it...LOL!

    As a man, I say to brothers, the more time you spend crying about how ONE - or TWO-THREE-FO' - sisters sent you packin', the less time you have to recognize the sister who was waiting for a holla JUST from you... Life is funny like that...

    Sister Cursed Heart, again, that was a helluva list you put together, and all true... We could make a list like that to tower up into the heavens, you know, but ultimately, a sister will overlook a lot just because she DIGS a brother's presentation, right???(smile!) "I like you", and "I Love you" usually isn't the logical, neatly plotted thing we make it out to be... Those are matters of the heart and soul, and the way human beings are wired is to adhere to those things when they come calling, not all of this logic piece... That is why we human beings can talk about our DRAMA all day long, and ask the same old question - "what was she thinkin'????!"(smile!)



    Peace!
    Isaiah
     
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    cursed heart Well-Known Member MEMBER

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    brother Isaiah I too know how it feels to get passed by especially if you are digging this brother!
    When we first meet someone or see someone we are going off of our physical because we don't know anything about each other.
    And you are right when one leaves, try another one but sam reminds me of me he does not like rejection especially if you feel sure of yourself:love:
    If you know you are a good brother or sister and you truly have faith in the person that you are, eventually it will happen:love: and baby the next thing you know you'll be in love:love:
    You see I'm not in love but there is nothing wrong with meeting new people,watching a good love story like jason's lyric,love jones,the scene on set it off with jada pinkett and blair underwood:love:
    The fact that brother sam is asking means he doesn't want to give up but he wants to know why his best is not good enough, just like anybody else:love:
    much love brothers:love:
     
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