it like this men often get their cheating ways from what they may have seen at home. the boys see daddy flirting may even catch him with women. grows up to carry on the traits. there's no sense in blowing a headgasket over his cheating ways. all its going to do is drive him to the affair and leave you in the cold. especially if you and him is splitting the bill. i told my boyfriend i aint and wont monitor you. cause life is too short for me to worry about who he sleeping with. stress can really kill you. and i wont to live. so i said if you cheat on me it better be with a condom. because the first time i catch a std my foot will be all up in there and that will confirm what you already know. its best if you really love your man to let him know you are aware of his doings and that if he value the relationship to get it together. if you see him buying condom pretty regular you best to leave. before three letters take you out permanent. do you think i'm wrong for feeling this way.