Black Relationships : sharing your man answer for joyce

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  1. nevar

    nevar Well-Known Member MEMBER

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    it like this men often get their cheating ways from what they may have seen at home. the boys see daddy flirting may even catch him with women. grows up to carry on the traits. there's no sense in blowing a headgasket over his cheating ways. all its going to do is drive him to the affair and leave you in the cold. especially if you and him is splitting the bill. i told my boyfriend i aint and wont monitor you. cause life is too short for me to worry about who he sleeping with. stress can really kill you. and i wont to live. so i said if you cheat on me it better be with a condom. because the first time i catch a std my foot will be all up in there and that will confirm what you already know. its best if you really love your man to let him know you are aware of his doings and that if he value the relationship to get it together. if you see him buying condom pretty regular you best to leave. before three letters take you out permanent. do you think i'm wrong for feeling this way.
     
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    If this is how you view relationships and the fidelity of men, then I´d advise you to take your philosophy a step further: Not only should you tell your boyfriend to use a condom whenever he inevidably decides to cheat on you...you should also use condoms everytime that the two of you have sex. That way you will ensure your own safety, instead of places your life in his hands. Indeed, that way you will guarantee nothing will come back to you. After all no matter how far your foot goes up his behind, if he brings back a fatal STD to you, your foot will be one step closer to the grave.
     
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    Lol.....

    Why can't I ever find these type of women?
     
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    sorry for the late reply your right about this. advice well taken

    to dual they out there you just need to stop getting them at the club just kidding.
     
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    simple if he cheating , u leave him first this will asure u safety and a peace
    of mind and a health well beings , you right why worry get move forward
    them same bills can be split with a trust worthy replacement who care
    and value his woman worth and value the relationship.
     
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    Different women demand different things from thier men.

    Some demand absolute loyalty from their man and nothing else he does matters just as long as she is his only one.
    He can be broke, abusive, alcoholic, thieving, as long as she's his only lover he's a good man.

    Others could care less if he has other women or not, as long as he's taking care of her and buying her what she wants.
    Ofcourse most women would never say this, but they show it by tolerating infidelity.
     
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    so true and then you have women who care less if he cheat
    because she a cheater herself .

    lot's of young men learn this trend or mold from what they see
    not always from the father or home but what they see on the street
    in movies and T.V. it divided into many reasons or acts that this take
    place .
     
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    When you settle, you do yourself a disservice. Go for what you want...just be truthful about yourself and with yourself about it. :D
     
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    thanks guys

    thanks guys for giving your input.:wave: :wave:
     
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    i tolerate to a certain degree. i know others wont admit but i'm willing to say i know because a change in our bodily functions. if he has a oder on him i won't touch him because i know his *** been out there. the women who i associate with just say this that what you want know wont hurt you. but the instant you got proof everything goes to hell. i know some people are going to shake their heads on this. but this is the way i feel so shoot me.:bazooka: :bazooka: :bazooka: :insane: :bam: :bam:
     
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