What do you mean by 'classy' in ref to these women? What makes them 'classy'?
Men seem to just throw words like that around. I don't use the word that liberally.
Maybe you should stop dating 'hood' females? I don't know. I don't really understand the problems that you're having. Is there more to this situation? You sure there's nothing else about you that's turning these women off?
Are you selling drugs? Are you an ex-con? Are you still 'hood'?
I'm just asking.
I understand women to be a certain kind of way. Your descriptions fly over my head...and this, as you've said, is something of a long-standing problem with EVERY female that you've attempted to date? I don't know what to make of that.
But, your issues are not indicative of the problems facing every black couple everywhere in America. Let's not get ridiculous with the conclusion jumping. *laugh* Although, I'm not surprised in the least that a 'black man' would cite a problem with 'the black woman' as the cause.
...because God knows if there's a damned problem going on - the black woman is the basis for it all.
Oh - I bet you are, honey! I just bet that you are....
Anyway, if these women don't have a degree, assets or money and a two-parent upbringing in a gated community? I don't understand why they're putting on airs. That makes no damned sense. I've met some females who put the 'B' in bougie. Solid middle-to-beyond background and they don't even behave like this. Makes no sense for a hood chick, too.
I never had an issue with a man's origins. Unless he's an ex-convict, I only care about what he's about in the present. My husband came from small beginnings. His brothers are 'statistics'.
I'm proud of him, actually. It's amazing to see someone rise so high from such a low starting point.
