omowalejabali said:Well sister, I for one shall make a change by going back and ignoring some of the comments directed to me and will for now on allow folks to take their shots, withstand them and keep moving forward. But just to let you know. I am not "ticked" by response or lack of response or support for MY sites. I do not have membership sites and my sites are set up as web portals. I have music sites that are growing daily and on a daily basis get more emails and bulletins than I can keep up with.
But I will say this. There are a lot of people who visit this site daily, who are guest and not members and a number formerly were paid, premium members. I actually have defended this site on other sites. But I am learning. As you say, sister Bisabee "This is just a start, but we've got to start somewhere". What I have suggested is folks start with SELF. Instead, they rather spend time projecting onto others. I guess that is an easier route than them admitting their own failure, their own lack of trust, and their own REACTION to what others do and say.
peace!
your statement hold much merit and indeed the first line to the solution
i made this choice a long time ago , i know i'm not heard more then i am but
i will keep forward with the love and unity in mind .