I need some comments from my dear brothahs. Ya'll know I just left my husband a few months ago so I am probably still a little vulnerable emotionally. So can ya'll give me some perspective on this guy who stepped to me last night. I live in a small town (27,000) where most everyone is pretty friendly so it's possible this guy has been watching me. He has stopped and talked to me before a couple times but I neverhad any rap for him. Until last night. I was carrying a box of bottled water home from the store last night and he offered to carry it for me. Anyway we started talking and he was telling me he had just broken up with his girlfriend. Okay that's not the question since I already know to give a cat on the rebound some time. We talked some more and I asked him to tell me about this girlfriend. Now this is where the plot thickens. Turns out she was some white chick that he let stay with him because she had nowhere to go. He had no feelings for her but she took off her clothes and they started screwing. He said he told her that he is not attracted to white women and prefers sistahs. This is not the first time I've heard a similiar tale of a white woman with nowhjere to go moving in and taking off her clothes demandinging that some poor helpless brotha screw her. These white chicks down here must be mighty horny. A white friend of mine told me about one such white chick who forced him to screw her when he saw a shot gun near her bed. So he did it to keep from getting shot although he didn't want to because her wig had come off and she ws comkpletely bald. My question is how can a man be forced to have sex when he doesn't want to especially with a woman he is not attacted to? Also why do brothahs who date and marry white women swear that they love black women? I mean if you want the cat why call the dog?