hopefully this won't add fuel 2 the fire but here r some things that i hear the brothers wish our sisters would learn/know. now, i say this n fun so don't get bent out of shape but there is definitely some thruth to it style & class: y blonde, burgundy, & other colors n the hair r not "fly" style & class II : y long fingernails, xcessive jewelry & makeup does not make u a diva. hair managment: going w/o a weave; & f ur hair style requires multiple pins & gel to shape it, it's probably not a good style. hair management II: ur hair does not have 2 b the reason not to exercise and sweat. style & class III: y dressing like a homegirl does not mean u r a woman who keeps it real, y tight revealing clothing only leads to wham bam's? fitness: the difference b/t big boned/thick/curvy, & obesity. disagreements: how to walk away w/o getting the last word n. o k, so, what class, seminar, or course would u make manditory (or strongly suggested) 4 the opposite sex?