The 4 Most Damaging Myths About Saving Your Marriage... Myth 1: You Need To Learn More Communication Skills Learning new communication skills will not help you. Teaching you how to communicate better, if your marriage is truly troubled, will only give you and your spouse the ability to fight more effectively! In many cases, improving "communication skills" only creates more damage and accelerates the deterioration of the relationship. Myth 2: There is only one "path" from the brink of divorce to marital bliss. Many other programs assume there is only one "path" back to marital happiness. I discovered there are 8 distinct paths! And, each "path" must be addressed differently. What is helpful at one stage can be destructive, or at least counterproductive, at another stage. I want to show each way of a unique path, for each stage that resolves the crisis best. These paths have been tested and retested,for what i understand and proven successful to a great point You will learn how to determine exactly which stage of marriage crisis you are facing. After you do this, you are infinitely better prepared to move forward and begin the healing and progress. Myth 3: You can't start saving your marriage if your spouse isn't interested. When a marriage crisis is in full swing, it sometimes takes awhile for the other spouse to respond. But, this does not mean that you can't save your marriage! This techniques and approach work. . . even if your spouse has already "given up. " Da strategies have been called "relationship Judo." You will learn how to use the negative energy in your relationship to turn your relationship around. Myth 4: Time heals all. This may be the most damaging myth of all! In my experience, many people procrastinate and hope that things will get "just work themselves out." This rarely, if ever, happens. You already know that! That is the reason you are at this mess. You are ready to take action! If you do not take action, the negative momentum of the relationship moves against you and before you know it, the relationship is too far gone. It is critical that you start the process of saving your marriage now. . . before things spiral into a place that is truly irreparable. Do you believe these are the most damaging myths told or do they hold truth to saving a marriage??? 1.priorities ....when we sum it up we alwayz seem to put marriage not first this is where we must start to saving a marriage is the priority of the marriage. 2.neglecting.... the mate or marriage is a key to where one must redefind self and openly pay more attention this grows deeper on the other mate and as marriage gets ignored. More than that, the relationship shifts from suffering with neglect to a growing animosity and antipathy 3.power structure ..... where one wants to shift the load or asume power in the marriage and the other not aware of change, we have to reconize this. 4.financial crises .....this too can kill a marriage , dealing with financial debt and urilizing finance understanding it's worth 5.The art of cheating / affairs and the dishonesty of a trust knowing the wrong and faults of this act with admitting and seting back up security of trust 6.Sexless motion in a marriage can be damaging you can bring a sparks of true pleasure and intimacy back again by knowing the likes of your mate and what turns them on. 7.Adressing feelings : are commonly known to be hidden in mates these things can take way from the marriage, expressing it full and honestly opens doors to betterment, this also bring forth the home structure and family morals. 8.LOVE....the biggest four letter word known and not well understood, love can be blind hurtful and careless if not treated right in a marriage, to asure the better half a divine love it must be spoken as well felt and shown. Understanding each faze and reconizing the area of breakdown can help put a marriage back on track. Can you imagine how wonderful it feel to, finally, eliminate the fear, anxiety and stress that currently envelopes you. . . and replace it with feelings of love, joy and contentment?