Higher Standard Required : Rule #12 - When Moderators are Moderating - Stay Out of the Way

Discussion in 'Our Rules - Higher Standard Required' started by Destee, Feb 18, 2010.

  1. Destee

    Destee destee.com STAFF

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    Peace and Blessings Family,

    New Rule ... when Moderators or Administrators are moderating, stay out of the way, unless you want to be all the way in it ... and be banned for being in the way.

    We would rather you all work out these situations without us, in the very best of manners of course, but if you can't we're here.

    So if you don't want us in it, handle it yourselves.

    The fact that the situation has risen to the level of needing the TEAM's attention, obviously means you could not handle it ... could not keep it under the radar ... could not solve the problem before it got to us ... could not manifest the unifying you talk so much about ... could not handle your own or other people's personal interactions to the degree that it yields the most positive interaction possible ... which is the goal of this community ... since you could do none of these things on your own ... please move out of the way when the situation gets to this level.

    Let us handle it.

    We are trained in the rules of this community and the administration of them.

    Again ... if you get in it ... realize that you are signing up to get all the way in it, up to and including being suspended / banned.

    That means any comment ... sighs, grunts, and moans included ... make a post and you get what we give.

    If you have complaints, concerns, questions, about the Moderator or Administrator's course of action during the event, start a new thread to discuss it.

    Thanks in Advance - Love You!

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  2. chuck

    chuck Well-Known Member MEMBER

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    Do we have the right to ask why a poster was banned?
     
  3. $$RICH$$

    $$RICH$$ Lyon King Admin. STAFF

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    often times it's in clear view wide open why and often when we do such it states
    the violation that brought us to this solution, following the log will show why so
    sometime even asking is like getting involved .
     
  4. Clyde C Coger Jr

    Clyde C Coger Jr going above and beyond PREMIUM MEMBER

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    In the Spirit of Sankofa,

    .......Well said $$RICH$$, I hope the questioner understands this clear language and doesn't get involve by asking when the information is readily available; not to mention the clear advice given from the Sister:

    Peace In,
     
  5. chuck

    chuck Well-Known Member MEMBER

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    Elder brother James Philly was banned and none of the moderators has even brought it up...FYI...
     
  6. RAPTOR

    RAPTOR Well-Known Member MEMBER

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    Really?!?!

    If so, I did not know that.
     
  7. Proverbs31Woman

    Proverbs31Woman Be kinder than necessary! MEMBER

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    I remember clearly that Brother James and others were suspended and if my memory serves me correctly it was for a week or two..his profile DOES NOT reflect him banned and he last logged in on Oct. 11th. Brother Chuck, please verify your information before making such statements, otherwise, you cause undue concern. And to add, when a member is suspended or banned, Sister Destee and the moderators do a wonderful job of alerting said folks in public view and this was the case when this suspension occurred.
     
  8. chuck

    chuck Well-Known Member MEMBER

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    James told me (I didn't ask him)...
     
  9. $$RICH$$

    $$RICH$$ Lyon King Admin. STAFF

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    Before putting your foot out there learn the truth because there is a thread about brother
    Jamesfrmphilly which i will not discuss because it's done and been served.

    for the record him and a few others only was suspended 3 days
    http://destee.com/index.php?threads/family-members-posters.68120/
    y'all would find all you need to know in that thread...

    Again it's best to not involve self because sometime self be the one Banned/suspended
    and not the one in question .

    step back .....shhhhh!!!! let go bruh !
     
  10. Clyde C Coger Jr

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    In the Spirit of Sankofa,

    .......Very well said $$RICH$$, well said indeed, we hear you speaking brother.

    Peace In,
     
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