Black Relationships : romance is counter revolutionary....

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  1. jamesfrmphilly

    jamesfrmphilly going above and beyond PREMIUM MEMBER

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    i helped a young sister get on to the bus today.
    she had three babies and a shopping cart full of food that was too heavy for her to get up on the bus.

    no man.

    this is what a man is for:
    a man is for to help you, not just to screw you.
    a man is for helping you get that food home from the market.
    a man is for getting the kids up to school. watch them when you need it.
    a man is for seeing that they get what they need.

    real manhood starts after the child is born. that is what separates the men from the boys.

    the media has fooled us into thinking it is all about romance.
    we think we just have to make sweet love and move on.
    after all, that is what we see in the movies. that is a trick.
    that concept has damaged our community.

    romance is counter revolutionary.

    black men and women forming a solid unit that can endure is what it is really all about.
    we got to like each other. we got to have mature values. we got to deal with our resposibility.

    romance novels have screwed everybody up.

    young women don't know what real man hood is and so they go for what they see in the stories.
    young men never see a real man taking care of business. just "kool fools" kung fu fighting.
    nobody ever changes a diaper in the movies.

    well real love is being willing to change diapers for as long as it takes just to be with her.


    romance is counter revolutionary.

    we need to turn off the TV.
     
  2. MRS. LADY

    MRS. LADY Banned MEMBER

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    real talk

    i been turn'd it off

    i met this brother downtown and when he bought his drink he said to the brother, thank u brother

    then he said how u doin to me

    i was like why u ain't call me sister? u called him brother?

    and he says

    because a sister is a relative, and i might like to have the opportunity to make love to you

    i said.... well i don't make love, i am love, i only make life

    and if u look at it that way abortion and fatherless children are never an option

    so he sung me a song

    his name was singin sam (and i ain't even kiddin)

    sex for the wrong reasons is counter revolutionary

    romance between love is pro creation
     
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    Putney Swope Well-Known Member MEMBER

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    BROTHERS BRING BACK THE ROMANCE

    Well if that's the case then F revolution!!

    The heart has a left and a right ventrical, 2 sides

    Loving a woman has 2 sides also, the resposibility AND the romance!!!

    let a sister explain to the brothers
    Dr Jewel Pookrum;
    http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=1rs2pp1viUg&feature=player_embedded
     
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    youngblackceo Well-Known Member MEMBER

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    Great post Bro. James.
    This is so true man.
    The whole concept of Manhood and what it means to be a man for Blackmen. has to be redefined into something that transforms our current reality.
    This notion of romantic love that has captivated our people mind. Is a concept that has create a social interface that is very counterproductive.
    Black people have to learn that the way a people choose to relate to one another has political, social, and economic consequences.

    By the way. How are you sister Miss lady. I love that pic. You are a very attractive sister. It is a pleasure to meet you!!
     
  6. jamesfrmphilly

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    yes, i have long said that who you do is a political decision
     
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    Well, now, let's not be too hasty on killing the romance. lol

    Mama be needing some TLC too. :)
     
  8. MRS. LADY

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    i'm talkinto the brother's right now

    u know why real women don't have real men

    because everytime we try to tell u something

    since it's not what u wanna hear u ignor it

    i can only paint the picture thru experience so let me tell u

    one job i got after dukin it out it court with the last gig....

    my son's father gave me some "expert" advice

    now, Lauren, don't go in there showin them how smart u are that's why u never get along with people

    oh, so i'm suppose to act stupid and helpless so people will like me

    yeah, if u show them how smart u are all the time and that u can do everything better they don't like it

    well, sorry if i don't want to be less then i am to please other people

    so i worked, i gave it my all

    boss gave me a project, tax project

    told her instead of doin all that work manually, the software can run a report of who u paid which will leave all dormant vendors off cause tax reporting only requires that u report payments in excess of 600 to any one vendor, if u set the parameter to filter the yr u want and figures of > 600, two month project done in a week

    oh the controller was diggin me, she didn't like that

    she told the temp agency they didn't need me anymore because i mad a mistake in accounts payable, and they were calling me cause that didn't sound anything like me

    told my agent only thing i was only workin on tax, that's a lie

    they said no worries we know how u get down cause i cussed them out too, for being tacky and call me at the hospital, on my mother's cell phone, the day she died to ask me when i'm comin back to work.. bad move

    really after about a month the whole company went under.. u can't do people like that and think karma don't come back

    that company could've have made it, but since the manager had inferiority issues she made the whole team weak, and led them right to out of business

    Most men wanna rescue u like u need to be rescued

    then at the library i was with this dude, both parent christian, some ******* called me a gang banger, called the cops on me, disrespected my son, and tried to get me put out the LIBRARY!!!!!

    HE REALLY LEFT ME THERE FIGHTING BY MYSELF CAUSE HE DON'T WANNA GO TO JAIL

    DUMP'D HIS *** TOO

    TOLD HIM HE AIN'T WIT ONE OF THEM SCARY U KNOW WHAT CHICS HE BEEN MESSIN WITH, HE WAS SUPPOSE TO HAVE MY BACK, AND THIS FOOL WENT OUTSIDE

    THE LIBRARIAN APOLOGIZED TO ME, BECAUSE I FREQUENT THE LIBRARY AND SHE KNOWS ME

    AND I DID THE CRACKA THAT CALLED ME A GANG MEMBER SHE GOT ONE MORE TIME TO DIS RESPECT MY CHILD AND I'LL EFF HER UP AND GO TO JAIL

    DUDE DON'T LIKE BLACK GIRLS NO MORE

    MY BABY DADDY DO BUT HE UNDERCOVER ABOUT IT

    I MEAN REALLY

    I ALWAYS MADE MORE MONEY THEN MY BOYFRIEND, UNLESS HE SOLD DRUGS
    I ALWAYS WAS NUMBER 1 AT EVERYTHING
    TOP OF THE CLASS, TOP OF THE GIG, TOP OF THE WORLD
    HUSTLE TOO

    NOT TO SAY I CAN BE BETTER THEN U, BUT WHY SHOULD I ACT LIKE LESS TO PLEASE ANYONE

    UR RIGHT, WOMEN DON'T KNOW WHAT A MAN IS

    BUT MEN GOT THE WHOLE WOMAN THING BACKWARDS TOO.
     
  9. Bootzey

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    WOW! I agree with brother James. I guess the planets have all aligned. Sis Astro4u is there something going on in the heavens?

    Romance is the icing on the cake... Not the cake itself.
     
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    word....now this is a message hearty enough to get full on.....
    thanks for this bro....

    one love
    khasm
     
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