Actually women don't reach their sexual prime until later in life (late 30's early 40's)kashif said:Bisabee I'm glad that you and Kemestry responded to my post. Thank you. However, I must disagree with you. I know that this is a touchy subject(FEMALE INFIDELITY). Nevertheless it should be explored. Is it possible sisters in their sexual prime(LATE 20'S and ON) are more prone to gather more then one male's seed? Could it be biological in nature?
Women don't have a seed to spread, so our drives are not the same. As mentioned in another thread, they are very much dependent upon our fertile times of the month.Is it biological for males to spread their seed. Brothers when you were in your sexual prime(16-27) roughly, how many sisters did you sleep with or had a desire to sleep with. And especially in our teens did we not sexually become bored with the same partner. Why then would not the same apply for the female in her sexual prime.
I think naturally people want to explore and learn, and you can do that within a marriage to a certain extent. Women initiate a divorce probably more for financial reasons, and also due to past infidelity by their spouse. This can cause the woman to, out of spite, seek to violate the relationship as well.Yes sisters do quite often blame the male for the troubles in the relationship whether it be money problems, sex or whatever. But, the sex was good in the beginning. Why not now? Could it be boredom? What about wanting something or someone different as we brothers desired in our prime?
Any civilized society can be judged by its women, because we are the first teachers of the children in a society. If we teach men and women to be irresponsible sexually, we damage the family unit and our nature to have order and be civilized. Sexual freedom does not mean 1,000 partners or how to do 501 freaky things. It is an individual being comfortable with themselves, what they like, and enjoying that with whatever partner they choose at the time. If we want to contribute something to our people and our future, we will be wise and settle into families in some way, shape, or form and nurture a new generation. This cannot happen if everyone is only focused on fulfilling sexual desires and running rampant. Let's remember, the purpose of sex in the first place is procreation.In my opinion this behavior is not a detriment to sisters. One cannot be made to be ashamed of their true nature. But this myth about manogomy was forced upon the female by an insecure male who was concerned about protecting his sperm and whether the offspring would truly be his.
I can see the truth in this. As women become more "independent" financially and socially, some of us do not see marriage as a necessity. This is a reality, but it is still dysfunctional. We need each other as Black men and women, and the sooner we realize this the easier it will be for us to understand each other and satisfy each other's needs.Bisabee newsweek also did an article on the rise of female infidelity. One of it's components was that women no longer have the need to rely on the male for financial security. Therefore she can dispose of him at will.