Ok I have a question and I need a real answer. Months ago, me and a guy exchanged phone numbers with the acknowledgement that we were mutually interested in getting to know each other. After we have discussed the whole having children deal and me not wanting to have children and at first he said that is fine and that he does not want them that badly, and then after that conversation, i have not heard from him for days, and he told me he has done some thinking and said that he really wants children and he does not want to be with me and resent me later. So I said okay, and I have not heard from him since. Another few months go by and we have exchanged words online and I am guessing he lost my phone number, so he asked me for my number again so we can talk as 'friends'. I told him that we can just very well talk on messenger or facebook since we are friends on there and he said "so you don't want me to have your number" I told him that, "i honestly do not see what there is to talk about on the phone that we cant talk about online" I assured him it was nothing against him personally, because it isn't. I just do not see the point in us talking on the phone for real if we are only friends and nothing more will come out of it. Anyways, I need to know if I handled this appropriately and being realistic, or was I being mean by not giving him my phone number again?