Well with Scorpio on my 3rd House cusp, I am certain you know where I would stand there! (Smile) HINT: My understanding of a person does not stop at their content...
Oh yes, I can imagine all of the research you have done on the people you study beyond their content...
Moreover, I have not found out yet, but after seeing another one of their web-pages with their “work” on the Darkness and darkness concepts, I am confirming they are Scorpio-Rising – that and the fact that they, just like Scorpio-Asc, like to be alone. I forgot what I said, but a while back you suggested to me that I bond with women who wanted to be alone, well even if you did not take into account how that matches up with my Venus-Scorpio – Scorpio-Rising attraction, it is amazing how all the pieces are coming together! That is not to say that I want to be with her, because she could be attracted to say, Capricorn-Rising, but it does show that what I look for in ladies could be explained astrologically - let alone my attraction to them explained the same way.
It depends on what attraction you are more attracted to...LOL Example: I have Pluto and Uranus in the 5th which gives me an attraction to men who are strange in some kind of way and Pluto makes me attracted to intense men. But there is a conflict because Uranus represents freedom and Pluto represents obsession, not to mention, I have those two planets/energies in Libra, the scales... Then, I have mars in Taurus which makes me attracted to reliable men, reliable and predictable men are two different things. I don't care for predictable because of my Uranus in the 5th. Basically I have Venus in Aquarius so who ever I am attracted to needs to be different in some kind of way. Example, I have dated men old enough to be my father...LOL I like diversity in my relationships, I like differences. My Venus is also in the 9th house of foreign lands and let's just say that I have had my share of dating men from the mother land.
One thing I never miss with Mars-Gemini is that they are very quick-minded, and quick to argue. However, i'd rather deal with them than Mars-Leo! Haha
Aries Sun likes to Argue as well, for some reason I been witnessing a lot of Aries arguing lately.
I'd say it makes your sister nervous, because according to Medical Astrology, Gemini rules the nervous system and Mercury (ruling planet) rules the brain, so there is no doubt anything you do around her would have a strong affect on her brain/nerves.
Great observation...
Capricorn (Saturn-ruling planet) is the Father-sign, right? Now psychologically speaking, I have observed many times how when children are playing and the father, or father-figure comes around, all the children take notice, simmer down, and become rather well, nervous. They ensure they are behaving, and you give them no reason to approach them, and if you do, approach them for something good. You will rarely see chaos ensue when in the hands of a Capricorn, imasmuch as things will not get out of control in the presence of a very 'serious'-minded father.
That's what Astrology is about, going outside of the box. Yes, you are right, that is how my kids act around me and at the same time they feel very secure in my presence. Most of my daycare kids know that when I am around, things will get done on time and done the right way.
Now coming back in from the outside – would the above be similar to what you explained? I can even recall less than a year ago working alongside a Capricorn sistah – when she was around, there was no clowning around or fooling around – everyone did their jobs. Point being, I have witnessed how Saturn (or Capricorn) reduces all the chaos, ruckus, playing-around (although some Caps have a sense-of-humor), but of course we explained that before. Gemini, like us Sags, are mutable, and oftentimes do not like many situations where we have to calm down and settle down because of the presence of someone or something. Me personally, it would be better and easier if I could settle down on my own, when i'm ready, but it's not always like that, nor is it supposed to be.
You are right, about everything and I just want to focus on the sense of humor part. I love a good sense of humor and I just love to laugh. A conscious Capricorn knows he or she needs laughter. Lot's of times my daughter be telling me that I find something funny about everything. I began explaining to her why something was funny and I tell you, she laughed every time. I could have been a comedian but I would have gotten stage fright. My motto is this, we can all laugh and joke while we are getting the job done. People who need to slack while they are having fun bugs me. I get the job done and I can do that while being humorous.
In my chart, Gemini rules my Midheaven – that would be the Tenth house, but wait – there's more! I also have my Mars and Jupiter on the Gemini-Decan, and 3 of my Dwads (1/12 of Decans) are in Gemini. If Earth were to be an Astrological planet, my Earth would be in Gemini, which would mean it would be assigned a house. That being said, Gemini does have its fair share of presence in my chart.
Okay, this here, I am going to have to look more into...
As I said before, my Saturn-Sag has really 'saved' me at times. What is interesting is to note that it is in the 3rd House, and is well aspected. I am quick to say that this is what makes me able to converse with you, and other adults the way I do. I shock many adults because I have this youthful appearance (Virgo-Rising), but then sound so much like someone who has been around for some years. My own mother even says I have grown ahead of my time...lol. Again, i'd say my Saturn-Sag placement in the 3H can explain that.
The old wise man is communicating and prefers to communicate with other mature or older people...
About Mercury-Cap, my mother has the same placement, and so does the sistah whose chart I just completed last night. They too demonstrate in more ways than one the value of applying restraints where and when necessary. They are also ultra-sensitive to "getting the job done" when it needs to be done. More on that in a bit.
For some reason I thought your mother was a Cancer Sun...
I just mentioned how I completed a chart for a sistah last night. She also has Pluto in the 5th House, and we are working with children ages 6-12. The children we deal with also have little to no home training, except where I spend a great deal of time it isn't as bad. She, on the other hand, is dealing with the same thing you are dealing with. I am glad you mentioned this, because now I know to pay closer attention to her, and I am certain it will be a bit similar to your style.
Please tell me what are her other placements and what are the aspects to her pluto?
I wish I can be like that, because I have Jupiter-Aquarius in the 5th House, and am a magnet for children. However, I am definitely not the strongest disciplinarian, and I do not like the idea of people being intimidated by me. Heck - it took me a while to break being intimidated by people; I will not come back and make others feel the same way. Sometimes I feel that my Mars-Libra is in the wrong house.
You call discipline intimidation? Why?
Anyway and without putting my whole resume on here, I will tell you that I have given well over 2,000 hours worth of unpaid time and attention to children. In fact, if you want to know why I am not on here as often as I used to be – it is because I am at a local Boys & Girls club 5 days a week. The time that used to go toward being on the net, has now gone toward ensuring that the youth are getting their homework done, studying, and staying out of trouble. In all honesty, I could never be paid, or paid enough for what I do with children. I am so sensitive to the concept of Community, so even when we are off the B & G C property, I still do what I do. Quickly before I return to your placements, what have children taught me? Children have taught me how much of a teacher I am! Right out of High School I worked for my uncle at his Charter school in Florida. As a Teacher Assistant, I worked with the same age group (6-12), got substitute teaching experience, and more. Last week, one of the young ones asked me if I could teach them how to get across the monkey bars. Would you know that 3 minutes into my lesson, all of a sudden more children, one-by-one followed, also wanting to learn how to get across the monkey bars? Next thing you know, out of at least 10-15, all but about 2 of them were on the monkey bars! I would not know whether it was the impact of my teaching or their willingness to learn, or of course, the nature of their attraction to me! More on that later.
5th house of creativity.
Aquarius is the humanitarian. Your creativity comes through being a humanitarian. Jupiter in their explains all the free services you dedicate towards being a humanitarian. You create a lot/Jupiter abundance, of things from all the humanitarian services you give. I remember you telling me some time back about a magazine or news letter you produced on your own and then the behavior tracking system you created while working with your uncle. Keep in mind also that although you do a lot of work for free, Jupiter is the planet of luck so where ever our Jupiter is, that is where we will receive our luck. Your Jupiter is trine your MC the MC is basically the 10th house of career. Do you see what I am saying here?
You must be proud of what you have done, because if those children are like the ones I dealt with, they will continue coming back, and will never forget you! Also, you are doing this with young people who really need it, so you are making a significant impact.
People keep telling me that but with my mercury and sun in Cap keeps me kind of not sure of what I am capable of. The irony is this, the self doubt is what keeps me going and pushes me on to succeeding.
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