How does a mother strike the delicate balance?
The son is ten years old. The father left his wife for another woman.
Naturally the mother must avoid taking out her anger on the son. She can't present the father as your father the no good cheating lying fothermucking sleezeball. At the same time she can't cover for the man. When the boy asks why dad isn't around anymore she has to tell him the truth.
What should she say?
Truly this is a major issue within the black experience.
Forgiveness, practicing forgiveness.
Not just saying I forgive you, but finding it in your own heart to actually mentally let it go.
A child is made up of "elements" from both parents.
If the mother is able in her mind to delete the whole concept of "no good, lying... etc., and understand the programming that has gone into this effect, by her understanding the balance will activate, and cause a domino effect.
Once a woman finds true value within herself, her capacity for forgiveness and love is overwhelming.
It's hard to present the truth as to why dad isn't around anymore, because the truth is deeper then "left me for another woman"......
we will our circumstances through our thoughts and intent, so once we recognize our own experience for what it is, and realize that a woman does have the power spiritually to transform perceptions, a natural effect on the surroundings is inevitable
it begins with self and yields results
you can participate in karma or increase aura
The Goddess in us all, meaning the "female balancing element" has been purposely willed out of the writing of history, but in truth that essence is what provides balance, and if this wasn't the truth we would not witness such a lack of balance
balance and equality are actually synonyms- but through language the meanings that have derived from that have purely taken on that of the male ego..
a woman should never be servant to a man's ego, and such is the case when anger overwhelms a calculated intent and situation...
If the child develops mom's anger as opposed to mom's (mind over matter) natural healing nature, in essence the battle for this child's soul is handed over
it takes courage and strength to let go of a man who has pained you, but it is the woman that must initiate the "healing" process, as she is equipped with that power
"knowledge of self"
the woman is the "heart" of the "home"... the "center" of creation
the heart provides the inspiration for every other action or organ that is motivated to operate....
an understanding of the true value of self
The consciousness the we give "birth" to is based on what elements we are capable of forming, mentally the sacrifice of any child (soul) is a direct selfish inconsiderate need and a crime against GOD's nature