This is especially for the few of you who don't have children...... I frequent Canada a lot and recntly visited Europe and was amazed at how mannerable, well educated, and civil so many black people are in those places compared to us in America. Everytime I go outside this country and see how black people carry themselves and get along with eachother and even the others in thier respective communities, I can't help but to wonder "what if". It's too late for me in many respects....but my decision not to start a family or raise children in this current state of America is becoming more and more adamant with time. I don't like how this society with it's corrupt racist media and dysfunctionaly educational system is spinning our black youth out...especially the black males. I just don't like how our youth are starting to think and behave. Whether or not we should stay and fight to change or pick up and go elsewhere as individuals is a good debate but it's not why I started this thread. I just want to know are other black people out there having doubts about raising children in this nation?