Black Relationships : QUIT STARIN' AND JUST SPEAK.....SHOOOOOT

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  1. spicybrown

    spicybrown Well-Known Member MEMBER

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    :yawn: Why is it that A LOT of Brothers just look real hard at a Sister, and never speak, is she just eye-candy to you all, are you sizing her up, is she just a little too big for ya, or is she just outright intimidating? I see this all the time. Some Brothers just turn skrait MUTE. Even the hottest men seem to zip-the-lip around the most simple sisters. Explain please:love:
     
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    reckless eyeballing.........?

    if you don't speak you can't get in too much trouble.........
     
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    JFP......


    lol......or be seen as a wierd-o:hammer:
     
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    I often ask the same thing about women.

    Why the double standard?
     
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    RIGHT!!
    LOL
     
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    Precisely.

    Personally, I don't do alot of speaking to Sisters, because apparently nothing I say is right, or good enough. So what's the point?

    However, I do try to keep the staring down to a minimum though. I try to sneak looks every now and then, when I think she's not looking--trying to be as discrete as possible.

    Some of my Brothers have not mastered this art. But even still, someone looking at you, should always be taken as a compliment; I don't know anyone that stares for too long, at anything or anyone that they consider ugly.

    PEACE
     
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    You know what
    I feel this thread
    I look but I dont stare
    I give her that look so she knows that I notice her
    So most of time if a woman is feeling you
    She will be like what was you looking at
    Or why you look at me like that
    Its all part of the game for real though
    I do see brothers stare at a sister though
    Its funny to me-Probably uncomfortable to the woman
     
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    men just are lustful they want us for one thing seems like
    if there not staring there calling us shawty and whatever else comes to mind interesting question

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    hey staring i think is what we do to get yur attention i dont think its on purpose but we like what we see sometimes we get hypnotized i never have had someone be like stop looking at me not yet i should say lol

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    I agree. That's why I said that women should take it as a compliment. The stare we give is basically saying that we find you to be very beautiful.

    PEACE
     
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