Black Women : Question for Black women about female homosexuality?

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  1. Ictoan Itkfae

    Ictoan Itkfae Well-Known Member MEMBER

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    Peace Sisters,

    This question is for any Black woman whether gay, straight, bisexual, or whatever...as a man I know that female homosexuality is more acceptable to some men than male homosexuality. Is the same true of women?; is female homosexuality more acceptable to some women than male homosexuality? How do you personally feel about female homosexuality - vs - male homosexuality?

    Peace & Love,
    Bro. Ictoan
     
  2. jamesfrmphilly

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    um, did you join to ask about our sex lives? don't we get dinner and a bottle of wine first?
     
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    Brother James ... why are you so rude?

    Folk are welcome to join and ask questions and stuff respectfully ... why you give 'em a hard time?

    In fact, this Member didn't ask about your sex life at all ... or anyone's for that matter.

    He asked what Sisters thot of female homosexuality ... and here you are ... being mean.

    I'm tired of apologizing for your rude behavior ... please stop being inhospitable.

    This is what we do ... have discussions, ask questions, talk, share ... it's what we do.

    Let folk do it ... without you act'n like they did something wrong before they get in the door good ... jeez.

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    :hello: Ictoan Itkfae ... Welcome Welcome Welcome ... :wave:

    Thanks for joining us and sharing!

    I don't have strong feelings about either ... just grown folk doin' what they want i figure.

    Other Sisters may have more feelings about it than i do ... and i hope they'll share.

    Please make yourself at home, because you are.

    Much Love and Peace.

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    Funny, James. :lol: dinner and wine online? They gonna email it to ya?
     
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    Well, if you're Christian, none of it is acceptable to you; neither male or female laying with the same, as it goes against Scripture.

    But generally, no, I don't believe black women are more accepting toward one over the other. I believe for males, it(seems to) go(es) towards their arousal, while for us females, if we aren't lesbian, that doesn't arose us, neither does two men wanting each other make us feel ready to jump in.
     
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    Brother jamesfrmphilly ... are you trying to sabotage our effort here?

    I remember you treated another new Member this same way when they registered, joined, and posted. So much so, till that person left, they've not posted since ... because of the way you treated them, responded to them ... so rude. Is this intentional? Are you trying to run people away from destee.com? Or are you not aware of how you might be perceived?

    You're one of the Elders here, and i find it hard to believe you have no idea of what you're doing.

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    james is wrong? mean? rude? inhospitable? really?
    a perfect stranger asking our sisters about their sex life is NOT rude?
    how would you respond if a person walked up to you on the street and asked you about your sex?

    i have been a loyal supporter of this house for many a year. it hurts me that you always see me in a negative light.

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    Brother James ... this is a discussion forum ... we ask questions, we talk about everything ... that's what we do. That's what your support goes to, helping keep alive the opportunity for folk to come here and engage with others. That's what all of my 16 years of blood, sweat, and tears have been for ... to provide a space for us to be able to ask whatever we want respectfully. We all do it. Everyone does it. It's what i want. It's what we're built for. We're built for this!

    You don't want people to do what we're built for?

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  10. Ictoan Itkfae

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    Thank you, Sister. Much Peace & Love to you, too.:)
     
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