Whats up with not dating or choosing plus size women? The media and the majority of white men describe the ideal woman as being skinny, bony, gaunt, thin or boyish-looking. Why do black men who are huge-size have the nerve to follow after white men with this same ideal? I’m not small, but I’m not a skinny-Minnie either. A large size (big stomach) male I was introduced to had the nerve to ask me my size over the phone before he met me in person. He saw a picture of me and thought I was cute, but wanted to know if I was fat. I asked him what different would it make. It would be rude of me to ask him how much he weighted. Of course he said it didn’t make a different, he just wanted to know. I thought it was an insult for him to ask me if I was fat before he met me. So, just for the hell of it, I told him I had size, not to large and not to small and that it would not hurt if I lost some weight. I wasn’t specific at all. Well guess what, I never heard from the man again. So, what’s up with that? Later I was told he didn’t like “BIG” women. He preferred his woman small. What a laugh. I’m glad I didn’t meet him, too hollow. I’ve heard not only him but several men say this…it’s tough for women of size. I wonder why over weight women do not appeal to over weight men, but these same men expect small women to want them?