Man o man.. my little cousin (22)tweeted this to his facebook friends this afternoon: "I havent been high all week. I havent been full once either. Worst week of my life hands down." I went back at him with this: "dude, you grown.. do your thing. .you know how I feel about it.. but listen: do me a favor an delete my nephews and nieces from your friend list.. I already had my kids delete you.. none of them really need to be hearing all of this glamorization of getting high.. not from somebody that they love and respect.. they really shouldn't even be on Facebook.. but they are.. so do that for me.. we have a responsibility to think about what we are saying and doing in front of the folks that we care for.. You might not agree with that right now, but keep living and you most likely will later.. anyway, I'm going to cut it off right here and just wish you all the best.. last thing.. we have a responsibility as sons, not to fall into the same holes that consumed our fathers.. I love your father like he is mine and I watched what happened to him.. I'm not going to watch the same thing happen to you.. tweet by tweet.. so that's it for me.. Peace." What made me really upset is that my whole family is on Facebook.. in fact, all of my friends on this profile are family members.. I have a second profile for friends.. anyway.. the whole family is getting these tweets and nobody is saying anything.. they all just keep silent about it.. I just can't understand that.. it really is sad to see someone destroying themselves in the same way that their father did.. I pulled his card but I know that it won't make any difference. I know that he'll keep going until he either sees the light or get's brain damaged like our younger cousin did by mixing weed and X.. I'm called his mother and left her a message.. and I'm calling his big brother to go have a sit down with him.. I hope he can shake himself lose from this mess and make his music thing work.. anyway.. I don't really have a question.. just sharing some real life.. comments? questions?