Problem solving 101 part 2

Discussion in 'Violators and Violations (Possible Ones)' started by Destee, Dec 10, 2008.

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  1. Destee

    Destee destee.com STAFF

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    Brother DSS ... haven't you and Brother Excel10K already had a heated public exchange? One that you felt compelled to apologize for? I really don't remember if Brother Excel10K was a part of that or not, but if so, why continue to engage him ... especially with the evidence before you ... of how it might possibly end up.

    I don't know ... i'm feeling a bit protective of Brother Excel10K right about now ... because he's done nothing wrong, and it seems everyone is jumping on him, challenging him, making him the target ... and i tend to gravitate toward the underdog ... every time.

    But if i've got it all wrong, if he was not the Member you were fussing with before, if you sincerely want to bridge the gap between the two of you, correct assumptions, etc. ... please ... forgive me and carry on.

    Much Love and Peace.

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  2. Da Street So'ja

    Da Street So'ja Banned MEMBER

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    i think you don't give any credit to anyone

    i'm at peace with Mr. excel our last exchange shows that i just have questions

    we've (excel and i) already passed that there is no gap in the bridge
    only maybe philosophy. he is a man with a view i'm asking questions

    Mr. Excel is no underdog Destee
    he has said so himself ok Destee relax at least relax on me and allow the man to answer some simple questions yes or no

    i want to fix what ails Black People and if i can join forces in something
    i feel worth while i'm ready to put up

    i trying to find if Mr. Excel has such a force i'm interested in
     
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    i would be a little more selective as to who you feel is the under dog.
    XL's premise is that black people have a character defect. he states that repeatedly.
    that is why he gets replys. a lot of us here raise to the defense of black people.

    if you are going to step in i would think the fair thing to do is to understand what the situation actually is.

    this cat puts down black people.
     
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    Brother DSS ... what claim did Brother Excel10K make in his opening post, that you take issue with?

    You are not the only one asking Brother Excel10K to bring substantive material to the table ... other Members have asked him the same ... while taking his topics off center, attacking him personally, accusing him of being disruptive, focusing on one or two lines or personal revelations he's shared, giving juvenile responses, etc.

    Now you are saying, it seems, that in order to build with another Brother, you have to know you all are on the same page. That's foolishness Brother DSS. None of us are on the same exact page. None of us have the same experiences. That is the challenge before us, to work together despite our differences!

    The fact that we are all here together, building together, is evidence enough that we have SOMETHING in common ... enough to build on ... share ... grow ... respect each other's positions and life choices ... all of this ... while moving our people forward ... as best we can ... TOGETHER.

    Your questions were asking him about his personal positions on a multitude of other things ... and no matter the answers to those questions ... be they yes or no, up or down, in or out ... we are still left with the challenge of working together.

    Based on that logic ... in my humble opinion ... it makes them moot, for no matter the answers, we must move forward, together.

    So why spend time on the things that really make no difference?

    What can we build together ... right here and right now ?

    With you being you, believing as you do ... him being him, believing as he does ... and me being me, believing as i do?

    What can we do with that?

    Love You!

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  5. Da Street So'ja

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    hey why are you cheering?


    you brought frankenstein here

    hahahahahahahhhahahahahahahaha

    just having fun on behalf of Mr. Excel

    listen i told the brother i love him
    http://destee.com/forums/showpost.php?p=557583&postcount=385

    i included "malignant condition" because of what the brother
    was typing of which i was NOT the only that took offense to what he typed

    but the fact remains i love Black People Mr. Excel is Black

    therefore I love him as a Black Man
     
  6. Destee

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    Brother James ... i'm always going to side with the Member that's getting a hard time from most everyone else ... especially when most everyone else have failed to prove that this Brother is the problem they believe him to be.

    Threads have already been started, accusing him of being disruptive, without providing one shred of evidence.

    You say he's stated repeatedly, that Black People have a character defect.

    Show it to me. Prove it. I don't believe he said that.

    If he did, then you're right, i too would have a problem with him ... but you're gonna have to show me he said that ... point directly to it ... give me the link ... before i believe it.

    Can you do that ... to even one time where he said it ... since you say, he said it repeatedly?

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    see Destee this is what i'm mean and you jump all on me for what?

    Why i'm i foolish for TRYING to find a middle ground then?

    and how can the middle be meet without dialogue?

    all the people in the civil rights movement didn't all have "same" experiences

    but got together for a common cause
     
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    lol

    it's all in GOOD fun Clyde
     
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    ok

    it is XL's basic premise that black people have a character defect. it is that premise that people here respond to.
     
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    Brother DSS ... i'm jumping on you because you're a Moderator and i expect so much more.

    I'm jumping on you because you should be the one defending him, when there's no evidence he violated a rule.

    I'm jumping on you because you're all down in the muck and the mire, wrestling with Members, like it's the thing to do.

    I'm jumping on you because ... well ... even though i'm fuss'n ... it excites me ... spanking you ... :spank:

    I didn't say you were foolish, i said it is foolish, to believe we must all agree, in order to build.

    Love You!

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