Addendum to original post
I got this reply from a brother from another forum which I would like people to consider before they reply. Thanks.
In regards to the stereotypical pro-black brother...those types of black men, similar to extremely religious men, follow a doctrine where the woman is the "supporter" not the "provider". Where as the pro-black brother sees his beautiful black sister as a woman to be loved, honored, cherished and respected... at the end of the day, there are certain things that they see as being expected of her, and there really are no ifs ands or buts about it.
This brother was basically saying that there were 'pro black' men who supported gender equality but he felt that the stereotypical or 'fiercely' pro black man (who might perhaps belong to an organization) followed a sort of doctrine which was in practice incompatible with gender equality. Any thoughts?