Black Relationships : Pretenders

Angela22

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Has someone ever spun their whole life story just to get with you?

Like, say, pretended as tho they were single when they were actually married? Or that they didn't have children when they had one on the way?

How would you deal with a situation like that if you had already invested your time, your emotions, your life into that individual?

Could you walk away easy? Would you?
 

Kemetstry

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Has someone ever spun their whole life story just to get with you?

Like, say, pretended as tho they were single when they were actually married? Or that they didn't have children when they had one on the way?

How would you deal with a situation like that if you had already invested your time, your emotions, your life into that individual?

Could you walk away easy? Would you?
WALK. They lied to get you. They will lie to keep you. It's obvious they don't respect you



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Queenie

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Has someone ever spun their whole life story just to get with you?

Like, say, pretended as tho they were single when they were actually married? Or that they didn't have children when they had one on the way?

How would you deal with a situation like that if you had already invested your time, your emotions, your life into that individual?

Could you walk away easy? Would you?
Yes, I could easily walk away from a situation like you described. The relationship was all based on lies so what kind of future will it have? Fool me once, shame on you.....fool me twice...and you know the rest.

The investment of time, emotions, life? It's all mine to control. Would I be sad...disappointed...angry...afraid? Yes. All natural human emotions when something like that happens. But, I wouldn't be a deliberate fool either. He would have to go...away....a long way....forever because I will have lost total and complete respect for him. There's no excuse good enough to justify something like that. I'd clean my house of his scent and after a very long hot shower and personal hygiene cleansing...I would be good to go.
 

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