if it is desired to remain as if there are two people in the house; don't get married.
marriage is a UNION; two people coming together to create ONE Family.
all energies of both parties, plus the children as they come along, must needs be fully devoted to the FAMILY. thinking in terms of the relative merits of one contribution "over"/"against"/"in addition to" the other keeps the concept of "separation" in the Family. while this may work, and while it may even look like it is working "harmoniously", it is, in fact, working just as well as the Global African Family is working today.
marriage is a UNION; two people coming together to create ONE Family.
all energies of both parties, plus the children as they come along, must needs be fully devoted to the FAMILY. thinking in terms of the relative merits of one contribution "over"/"against"/"in addition to" the other keeps the concept of "separation" in the Family. while this may work, and while it may even look like it is working "harmoniously", it is, in fact, working just as well as the Global African Family is working today.