Black Relationships : Pornography: Betrayal or Harmless?

[frankster]

Thanks for that breakdown. It helps put things into perspective.

How does it affect your Perspective?
What was your perspective before?

 

[frankster]

i meant sexy fun. destee is not at all sexy.

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[legit-writer]

How does it affect your Perspective?
What was your perspective before?

Me personally, I think that if both of you are fine with it, then cool. If you come into a relationship, knowing that the other person despises it and doesn't want it looked up, and you agree with it, but yet go behind their back and look it up anyway, then it's very dishonest and the question will come up of why get with someone who you know has an issue with it. I personally also feel that it's detrimental to a relationship and sex life especially if one person strongly opposes it. Hope this answers your question.

 

[frankster]

Me personally, I think that if both of you are fine with it, then cool.

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Are You cool with it?

If you come into a relationship, knowing that the other person despises it and doesn't want it looked up, and you agree with it, but yet go behind their back and look it up anyway, then it's very dishonest and the question will come up of why get with someone who you know has an issue with it.

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And on the flip side equally true is why get with someone who you know is into porn?

I personally also feel that it's detrimental to a relationship and sex life especially if one person strongly opposes it.

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Is Porn detrimental to relationship in and of itself?

Hope this answers your question.

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[legit-writer]

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Are You cool with it?


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And on the flip side equally true is why get with someone who you know is into porn?


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Is Porn detrimental to relationship in and of itself?


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Well if the person is telling you that they don't need it once they're with someone, it isn't a matter of whether or not someone gets with someone who is "into", especially if they have made it clear that they were only doing it because they were single. But it's a waste of time to tell someone all of that only to still be looking it up. At that point you have lied to that person when you should have been up front in the first place.