Black Relationships : Personal Space

legit-writer

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First of all, I have been on in a while, I know. So I am back in action for now.

For those who are in a relationship, you guys should not have a problem replying to this. For those who are currently single, let's pretend you are in a relationship for a moment. What is your idea of her giving you space? Do you feel that giving each other space brings you two closer, and if so, why? What do you consider not giving enough space, and give an example or two. And what do you consider giving TOO much space?

Thanks
 
It good to have space between the two that will help keep the fire burning
more to share when the two join back at home , it brings you closer indeed

A woman love her time away as well a Man who love his private space
it opens doors to be with friends away from your best friend which is thy mate

when your mate hugs around you too much all day every day is not enough space
but what i call muzzling which can bring the relationship to become boring or one
will become tired of the other

closeness is good but often bring on arguemental things or boring tales
1. always around 24/7 don't want your mate to go anywhere or with anyone

2. nothing to talk about new because the two been around each other all day
often become boring and can space the relationship

given that space away brings good things in return not muzzling the mate.

Too much space can cost a relationship or harm the love between the too
like letting one's mate be so freely out in the streets at clubs / parties as so forth
never around one's mate opens doors for new friendship in his or her life can
flame up when they feel pushed away or not loved by this so wide of space.

Often more then any he or she will feel you don't care.
 
legit-writer said:
First of all, I have been on in a while, I know. So I am back in action for now.

For those who are in a relationship, you guys should not have a problem replying to this. For those who are currently single, let's pretend you are in a relationship for a moment. What is your idea of her giving you space? Do you feel that giving each other space brings you two closer, and if so, why? What do you consider not giving enough space, and give an example or two. And what do you consider giving TOO much space?

Thanks

Examples of not enough space:Spending the night at one's house every night.
Everywhere they go you want to go.
Answering their cell for no reason.
Watching the game with him and his friends and no other women are there.
Calling them every five minutes either on the phone or in person.

Examples of too much space-Calling only twice a week.
Hanging out more with your friends than your mate.
Occasional sex.
Dating other people.
Lack of intimacy(sex not included)very little hugging,kissing,conversation,nonchalont about important subjects in either one's lives.
 

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