Peace Sister. It's not really what he does, but what you observe. You are the Queen, remember? Don't allow a man to perform for you. You had asked," What he should show you?" Sister, he could wind up showing you whatever you let him. Watch him. He will breathe his spirituality. It won't be a dogma. It will be a way of life. You'll sail together and climb tough mountains together. He'll consult with you as he would his own mind. And you'll remain until you leave this Earth. THE FEMALE RULES IN NATURE!! Meditate on this sister. Gather your power. Break away from the male supremacy that has enslaved the Female on all fronts. Him making you HIS wife, becoming Mrs. whoever he is. And the rape of Nature. A ideology that has indoctrinated and entrapped us all. The male rules nothing without you Sister! Why would our Creators be alone, while also at the same time wanting us to be mated. As the Bible says "Let US make man in OUR image. I have always wondered who "US" was. And I'm not about to let a dogma tell me.