Discussion in 'Black Relationships' started by peach_so_sweet, Nov 1, 2004.
Have you ever felt like a women was dumb for not giving you a chance?
hey, they were ALL dumb that didn't give me a chance!
I'm here posting on this forum, where are they?
never felt a female was dumb , but did say you might be missing
a good thing a good man by over looking him .
Brother James ... don't make me tell all our bizness ... okay?!
I didn't think they were dumb either. I just sat and thought. Well they missed out. Then there were times I passed up direct approaches and offers. I guess They were saying I was dumb. I may have been. Never pass up a meal. But I didn't want the dessert that attached itself, so I didnt go in!
Now when love came with no strings that was what I was after. I sat at the table. I'm mature and well beyond those days. Quiet man.. don't tell.
Wow .... Destee you looking Great!
You sure you are over 30 years young. Here some tea.
Sorry Peach _so_Sweet.. I had to say something. Destee I do like your photo.
Thank You Brother HODEE ...
A long time friend of mine was complaining that i've only had that one picture out here since forever, and with everyone adding theirs to the forum family picture album, i was moved to share myself with the family ... so now there are 2 pictures of me on the forum ... this one was taken a few months ago by my daughter ... i find it kinda amazing too, that i look younger in it, than the one that's been out here for years, when i actually was younger ... but i'm 43 years old and there's lots of gray hair mixed in that black.
Thanks for the love.
You do look nice. Anyway, this is off topic but I want to thank you for this forum. I know I don't post enough, but I don't want everything I type to be negative and angst ridden. Reading what other people post and think is sometimes enough.
Anyway, "Peach", I can definitely relate. But I quit thinking women were stupid, even though some obviously were, and started thinking more along the lines of I'm simply not what they wanted at the time. Key words being "at the time".
I've been told that I'd make a good husband and father, but not a good boyfriend. I've also been told that I'd be a good man to marry but not a good man to date. I'm starting to understand what that means and I only mentioned it to give you something to think about.
Good luck and I hope you meet somebody.
No I think the women that passed me before this current date, saved themselves a lot of headache and stress. But the lovely lady with the initials of O.C. from Manhattan, found herself a diamond that was once a lump of coal, who had to be forged by introspection, maturity and accountability.
I am the brother that has been passed by so many sisters. I wasnt what they was looking for at that time. However later in life I have all of sudden became what they looking for, but I havent changed Im the same man.
And I still am that man...
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