I know a Black woman who was single 4 years ago. She had 2 children by a Black man who she loved but he would not marry her because he felt that another woman who had children by him needed him as well. So after being with him for 2 years, even though she loved him, she moved on and met a man who was Puerto Rican who wanted to marry her but she didn't have that same love for him as she did the Black man. But she decided to marry the Puerto Rican and she is happily married and she loves her husband and their children. Their family goes to church together and they are committed to each other. If she rejected this man because of his race not being the same as hers, they would not be married. Her husband always treated her well, even when they were single. He loves her and cherishes her as his wife and as the mother of their children.