Parenting / 11 steps

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So often throughout the steps of a child life as parent/s Mother's and
father's alike builds a bond and gives there little one a sense of security
through the years , but whereas often most parents lose contact with
there child/ren well beings and wherebouts in early life that has broken
the bond , divided hope as they lead into the unknown and under street
guidance, it's so easy to second guess yourself in the early stages and
throughout the years of parenting.
I've found it easier to cut myself some slack to understand the child/ren
development and the ways to leave a positive impact upon a child.
Mother's & child connect before birth which leave a father to work harder
to connect with his little one and often not aware of the steps to take or
as like many who will formulate there own upbringings and bonding we all
have our own social adaptable way.

Here's some tips step by step
If your guide or you following these steps more likely you are doing
what it takes as a parent to be a good parent mother / father and
most men need these steps to hub thy child .

1. Giving warmth and hugs , kisses and daily saying (I love you )
key points ia Hugs they love the warmth , kisses let them know you care
and as they grow knowing these words of (I love you) give them a sense
of security bond.

2. Reading stories and singing songs often before bed time
The benefit here is twofolds , one hearing stories and songs is a key
component to early world language and wordless picture books is a great
source that promote communication between the parent & child while you
express the picture this opens a new thinking pattern or waves mentally

3. Having conversations with your child before they can ever speak
like whats going on around him , things about life and the world outside
the box (Home) our society who you are to them and how you feel about
them once they can speak they will have collected information through
early days of life .

4. Praising / Accomplishment through early childhoodBuilding up your child/ren confidence, self-esteem this also is a common
connection that will lead them upward to achieve higher goals

5. Manners
what better way to teach your child/ren good manners starts from the
beginning pattern when you instill love, saying thank you , Please and
other formal means they pick up what is being said and learn this a good
thing they call manners / Respect.

6. Admiring your child/ren work or artistic means
even throughout school til adulthood will open doors for there future

7. Answering to them as a baby til adulthood
I learn that answering my child cry and needs through there 1st year of
life will give them secure and trust and not so much as it's been hype up
about spoiling, beyond the age of 5 answering to the child cry is any parent
concern but it's also good to instill to them that crying is not a means to get
what they want , once a teen you should have all the basic in and keeping
the communication and trust

8. Doctor visits
We want whats best for them and have a great or perfect health and from
day one keeping appointments and making doctor visits often throughout
the years , teaching them good health morals and often safty tips.

9.Encouraging and Understanding
Encouraging you child/ren to reach and feel for the highest star
from first start encouragement helps the child/ren better move into
the next stage of life and how they was get alone with others or interact
once they reach the age into teenship then through trust and bond as a
parent you must learn to understand and listen to them , often we lose our
children at this stage by not understanding or taking time to listen, it
rips down the trust wall and bondship......Parents must give time devoted
to listen and understand to find a solution and work it out .

10. Celebrating birthday's / events / school plays and function / hoildays
these are great things to share in with your child making there day be as
bright and fulfilling and rewarding this also show the love in heart

11. Teaching thy child
Even beyond the social world of public / private schools we can stay
close encounter with our children and there full potential / development
teaching family morals / how to save / history and culture this will give
the the full picture of life how society runs and what to expect out there

Teach them how to deal will peer pressure and other means in life
and from these 11 steps of growth 99.3 percent they will turn out
very prosper to succeed and achieve socially / economic and mentally
as well spiriturally and emotionally and 98.9 percent they will become a
mother or father themselves with strong ties and morals and will wedd.
 
welcome sista it's the first line to a health and good upbringing of a child
time we stop losing the battle of our children and allowing the streets to
be there guide and means of love that truely will lead them astray and even death

we as parents need to reach out more and not be so quick to beat / hinder or down
our children for what is often common mistakes in life but uplift them from those small
mistakes and praise them they will do better this will allow them to understand more
and not shut down the communication line , loving a child is a depth of combonations
needed , most of all family morals and respect is instilled again thank u sista.
 
welcome sista watz , i really think in nurturing a child comes with many
conditioning things that will secure a good upbringing , we want our children
aware now of the outside circle the love and what devotion is how to work in
society and be social , we really talking about the future we must lead them
in the path as well showering them in praise, thank you sista.
 

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