Parenting / 11 steps

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  1. $$RICH$$

    $$RICH$$ Lyon King Admin. STAFF

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    So often throughout the steps of a child life as parent/s Mother's and
    father's alike builds a bond and gives there little one a sense of security
    through the years , but whereas often most parents lose contact with
    there child/ren well beings and wherebouts in early life that has broken
    the bond , divided hope as they lead into the unknown and under street
    guidance, it's so easy to second guess yourself in the early stages and
    throughout the years of parenting.
    I've found it easier to cut myself some slack to understand the child/ren
    development and the ways to leave a positive impact upon a child.
    Mother's & child connect before birth which leave a father to work harder
    to connect with his little one and often not aware of the steps to take or
    as like many who will formulate there own upbringings and bonding we all
    have our own social adaptable way.

    Here's some tips step by step
    If your guide or you following these steps more likely you are doing
    what it takes as a parent to be a good parent mother / father and
    most men need these steps to hub thy child .

    1. Giving warmth and hugs , kisses and daily saying (I love you )
    key points ia Hugs they love the warmth , kisses let them know you care
    and as they grow knowing these words of (I love you) give them a sense
    of security bond.

    2. Reading stories and singing songs often before bed time
    The benefit here is twofolds , one hearing stories and songs is a key
    component to early world language and wordless picture books is a great
    source that promote communication between the parent & child while you
    express the picture this opens a new thinking pattern or waves mentally

    3. Having conversations with your child before they can ever speak
    like whats going on around him , things about life and the world outside
    the box (Home) our society who you are to them and how you feel about
    them once they can speak they will have collected information through
    early days of life .

    4. Praising / Accomplishment through early childhoodBuilding up your child/ren confidence, self-esteem this also is a common
    connection that will lead them upward to achieve higher goals

    5. Manners
    what better way to teach your child/ren good manners starts from the
    beginning pattern when you instill love, saying thank you , Please and
    other formal means they pick up what is being said and learn this a good
    thing they call manners / Respect.

    6. Admiring your child/ren work or artistic means
    even throughout school til adulthood will open doors for there future

    7. Answering to them as a baby til adulthood
    I learn that answering my child cry and needs through there 1st year of
    life will give them secure and trust and not so much as it's been hype up
    about spoiling, beyond the age of 5 answering to the child cry is any parent
    concern but it's also good to instill to them that crying is not a means to get
    what they want , once a teen you should have all the basic in and keeping
    the communication and trust

    8. Doctor visits
    We want whats best for them and have a great or perfect health and from
    day one keeping appointments and making doctor visits often throughout
    the years , teaching them good health morals and often safty tips.

    9.Encouraging and Understanding
    Encouraging you child/ren to reach and feel for the highest star
    from first start encouragement helps the child/ren better move into
    the next stage of life and how they was get alone with others or interact
    once they reach the age into teenship then through trust and bond as a
    parent you must learn to understand and listen to them , often we lose our
    children at this stage by not understanding or taking time to listen, it
    rips down the trust wall and bondship......Parents must give time devoted
    to listen and understand to find a solution and work it out .

    10. Celebrating birthday's / events / school plays and function / hoildays
    these are great things to share in with your child making there day be as
    bright and fulfilling and rewarding this also show the love in heart

    11. Teaching thy child
    Even beyond the social world of public / private schools we can stay
    close encounter with our children and there full potential / development
    teaching family morals / how to save / history and culture this will give
    the the full picture of life how society runs and what to expect out there

    Teach them how to deal will peer pressure and other means in life
    and from these 11 steps of growth 99.3 percent they will turn out
    very prosper to succeed and achieve socially / economic and mentally
    as well spiriturally and emotionally and 98.9 percent they will become a
    mother or father themselves with strong ties and morals and will wedd.
     
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    Those are great steps Brother Rich!
    Every parent and child can definately benefit from using these steps.

    Thank you for posting them!:heart:
     
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    welcome sista it's the first line to a health and good upbringing of a child
    time we stop losing the battle of our children and allowing the streets to
    be there guide and means of love that truely will lead them astray and even death

    we as parents need to reach out more and not be so quick to beat / hinder or down
    our children for what is often common mistakes in life but uplift them from those small
    mistakes and praise them they will do better this will allow them to understand more
    and not shut down the communication line , loving a child is a depth of combonations
    needed , most of all family morals and respect is instilled again thank u sista.
     
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    Just shows the warmth of a father's love. There's much a parent can do to nurture a child. Thank you for caring enough to share.
     
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    welcome sista watz , i really think in nurturing a child comes with many
    conditioning things that will secure a good upbringing , we want our children
    aware now of the outside circle the love and what devotion is how to work in
    society and be social , we really talking about the future we must lead them
    in the path as well showering them in praise, thank you sista.
     
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