So often throughout the steps of a child life as parent/s Mother's and father's alike builds a bond and gives there little one a sense of security through the years , but whereas often most parents lose contact with there child/ren well beings and wherebouts in early life that has broken the bond , divided hope as they lead into the unknown and under street guidance, it's so easy to second guess yourself in the early stages and throughout the years of parenting. I've found it easier to cut myself some slack to understand the child/ren development and the ways to leave a positive impact upon a child. Mother's & child connect before birth which leave a father to work harder to connect with his little one and often not aware of the steps to take or as like many who will formulate there own upbringings and bonding we all have our own social adaptable way. Here's some tips step by step If your guide or you following these steps more likely you are doing what it takes as a parent to be a good parent mother / father and most men need these steps to hub thy child . 1. Giving warmth and hugs , kisses and daily saying (I love you ) key points ia Hugs they love the warmth , kisses let them know you care and as they grow knowing these words of (I love you) give them a sense of security bond. 2. Reading stories and singing songs often before bed time The benefit here is twofolds , one hearing stories and songs is a key component to early world language and wordless picture books is a great source that promote communication between the parent & child while you express the picture this opens a new thinking pattern or waves mentally 3. Having conversations with your child before they can ever speak like whats going on around him , things about life and the world outside the box (Home) our society who you are to them and how you feel about them once they can speak they will have collected information through early days of life . 4. Praising / Accomplishment through early childhoodBuilding up your child/ren confidence, self-esteem this also is a common connection that will lead them upward to achieve higher goals 5. Manners what better way to teach your child/ren good manners starts from the beginning pattern when you instill love, saying thank you , Please and other formal means they pick up what is being said and learn this a good thing they call manners / Respect. 6. Admiring your child/ren work or artistic means even throughout school til adulthood will open doors for there future 7. Answering to them as a baby til adulthood I learn that answering my child cry and needs through there 1st year of life will give them secure and trust and not so much as it's been hype up about spoiling, beyond the age of 5 answering to the child cry is any parent concern but it's also good to instill to them that crying is not a means to get what they want , once a teen you should have all the basic in and keeping the communication and trust 8. Doctor visits We want whats best for them and have a great or perfect health and from day one keeping appointments and making doctor visits often throughout the years , teaching them good health morals and often safty tips. 9.Encouraging and Understanding Encouraging you child/ren to reach and feel for the highest star from first start encouragement helps the child/ren better move into the next stage of life and how they was get alone with others or interact once they reach the age into teenship then through trust and bond as a parent you must learn to understand and listen to them , often we lose our children at this stage by not understanding or taking time to listen, it rips down the trust wall and bondship......Parents must give time devoted to listen and understand to find a solution and work it out . 10. Celebrating birthday's / events / school plays and function / hoildays these are great things to share in with your child making there day be as bright and fulfilling and rewarding this also show the love in heart 11. Teaching thy child Even beyond the social world of public / private schools we can stay close encounter with our children and there full potential / development teaching family morals / how to save / history and culture this will give the the full picture of life how society runs and what to expect out there Teach them how to deal will peer pressure and other means in life and from these 11 steps of growth 99.3 percent they will turn out very prosper to succeed and achieve socially / economic and mentally as well spiriturally and emotionally and 98.9 percent they will become a mother or father themselves with strong ties and morals and will wedd.