I would appreciate it if someone would patiently explain to me why you consider personal choices of individuals who are happy with those choices can be considered "self-hate"?
Truthfully brother Excel no one can answer that because every choice one make in the mist of happiness
is theres alone ....you can't sum self-hate from that only learn to respect them choices .
great question which only to me answer is you can't !
Well apparently there is a tremendous lack of respect towards others over personal choices that the self-appointed "Council on Black Correctness" deems inapropriate for the collective black people.
What is it with this "Forum to Overcome Self-hate" when all they are talking about is "personal choices" that they (The self-appointed "Council on Black Correctness") deem inappropriate for black people??????? AS IF someone had to "Overcome" a personal choice that they themselves are happy with, but the self-appointed "Council on Black Correctness" isn't.
They (The self-appointed "Council on Black Correctness) apparently could not care less about REAL Self-hatred, that is SELF-DESTRUCTIVE BEHAVIOR as well as behavior that is destructive towards the collective black people.
Stuff like this below (in red) speaks of personal choices, yet the self-appointed "Council on Black Correctness" feel it is their business to have a "Forum" on it while completely ignoring the self-hatred of over 6,400 black men murdering other black men each year, or black men making black children then walking away from them.
Blaming members of our race for marrying outside of it, for straightening their hair, wearing colored contact lenses, practicing the wrong faith, living in the wrong area codes will not heal the collective nor individual patterns or self-hate and unworthiness. In fact, the persecution of each others symptoms will only promote self-hate amongst us and push us further into the arms of those who will eventually reject us.
So, according to the self-appointed "Council on Black Correctness", personal choices that the individual is happy with is now a SYMPTOM of self-hatred. Oh, I get it, the self-appointed "Council on Black Correctness" gets to decide rather a black person is really happy or if they are just decieved into thinking they are happy and fulfilled. They also get to decide rather a black person retains the privilage of being "truely" Black or "Black enough" based upon compliance with their rules and bylaws.