Culture is not just the fashions you wear or the music you like, it's how you live your every-day life.
Btw, I wasn't "arguing" for anything; I was being facetious.
I am not saying African Americans don't have a CULTURE I'm saying it's more AMERICAN than it is AFRICAN. Therefore, it is harder for us to contribute regarding what is the best step Africa-wise when we are so trained America-wise.
I am also not denying that there are some things about Black people that just ARE.
Black people are often wholly honorable, generous, appreciative of each other, and try to keep their families together I'm sure. And I'm also sure you know more than one black family that gets together and makes Tshirts for family reunions.
This being said when I scoff at African American culture, I am not scoffing specifically at a family BBQ you attended and enjoyed and thought to yourself "This is culture!" Africans in Africa enjoy a BBQ now and again so I hear.
I am telling you that perhaps where you live African Americans consider BBQ to be culture,
but were I live it looks like most blacks are trying to live lives that actively deny their African background and seek out the "American" side (for various purposes I'm sure, most probably just trying for "success" in this country).
The African American culture isn't portrayed as though MOST African Americans are church-abiding, collard greens n' pork eating, honorable street fighters anyway!
And BESIDES even if we were church-abiding, collard greens n' pork eating, honorable street fighters, that mostly sounds supremely more American than it does African. I mean, can you imagine in a traditional African village everybody just having a throw down and bringing all the boys for a brawl? Do you see my point?
We aren't really African by culture anyway. And certainly
"Being More African" isn't even the goal of most African American families OR communities anyway.
EVERYTHING WE BLACKS DO IN AMERICA is working off the skims of what we once had when we were first brought to this land. ALL CULTURE WE HAVE NOW is what we were GIVEN and ALLOWED after that point.
Anyway,
my point here is that our culture isn't African enough to tell Africans what to do. We've just got the skin, but most of us don't have the background after living here in America.