Am I the only Black man in America who is not satisfied with the way Black women and men relate to eachother today? I must be because everytime I see other Black people they aren't complaining about how the sexes get along. They don't seem to think there is a problem. The Black people I see are busy grinning on a cell phone lining up thier plans for the evening to go out and have fun....to hell with restructuring the Black family and gender relations. Maybe it's just me, but I feel there is too much selfishness, materialism, and arrogance involved in relationships today. I also feel as a Black man too much is demanded and expected of me by society, but the resources necessary to meet those demands aren't being provided. We are expected to be the best even though society treats us the worst.